Iningi labantu ababhekana ngqo nezimpi, abazibonela mathupha, kunokuba basebenzise amabhayisikobho aseHollywood noma izinkulumo zezombangazwe, ngabantu abahlala lapho kulwelwa khona izimpi. Ezimpini ezibandakanya amazwe acebile akude ohlangothini olulodwa, amanye ama-95% alabo ababulewe noma abalimele noma abahlukumezekile, kanti i-100% yalabo abaqhutshwa ngamabhomu emakhaya abo ngabantu ababelwa impi, iningi labo kuyizakhamizi nabanye abantu benza ngqo lokho i-movie yaseHollywood noma usopolitiki abangabatshela kona - ngibatshelile - ukwenza: ukulwa.
Kepha kusele lelo elinye iqembu, abahlaseli abavela ezweni elicebile elikude. Zincane kakhulu ngenani kodwa izinombolo zazo zisakhulu, futhi - njengabantu abahlaselayo - ukuhlupheka kwazo kunakho ehlala njalo. Okuningi kubo kubulawa ukuzibulala ngemuva kwempi okuthiwa iphelile kunokufa phakathi nayo. Izifo nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo abaletha ekhaya kubathinta bona nalabo ababazungezile nabanye abangakazalwa. Bahlekwa usulu njengabahluliwe noma basetshenziswe njengezinsiza zokuthengisa izimpi eziningi - lokho kubizwa ngokuba nokukhetha kwiDemokhrasi Enkulu Kakhulu Yomhlaba. Khetha iPhathi ehlekisa ngomakadebona ngenkathi idala iningi labo noma iqembu elibakhazimulisayo ngenkathi lidala abaningi babo. Ngaphandle kokuba nalezi zinqumo ezimbili ngoSuku Lukhetho Olungcwele, kungani, ungafanela ukuqhunyiswa ngamabhomu njengabo bonke abantu abangenantando yeningi izimpi ezilwelwa zona.
Yini omakadebona abacabanga ngayo ngempi? UNancy Hill ubuze inqwaba yabo futhi ushicilele izimpendulo zabo nezithombe zabo. Ufake omakadebona baseMelika abavela eMpini Yezwe II ngezimpi zamanje. Ufake imibono eminingi. Ngenkathi iningi lalabo abasencwadini yakhe, Impi: Amazwi WamaVeterans, bangamalungu eqembu eliphikisayo lempi iVeterans For Peace, futhi isampula impela alimeleli omakadebona baseMelika bebonke, kunabantu abafakiwe lapha abasola, nabanye abafafaza, inkulumo-ze yempi.
"Impi ingeyabantu abakhulu bezinkampani ngokuxhaphaza kwabo amanye amazwe." -Harvey L Thorstad.
"Isosha livikela amanye amalungelo futhi noma ngabe awuvumelani nokwenziwa nguhulumeni, kufanele uvikele inkululeko yakho." –UJudith Lynne Johnston.
Mhlawumbe noma ngabe awuvumelani nokuthi impi ivikela inkululeko, kusamele uyilwe leyo mpi ukuvikela inkululeko.
Kukhona uhla futhi kusuka ekukhulumeni kuya ekuhlanganiseni, kusuka ezinkondlweni kuya ekungafundini. Kepha ngokuhlangana, izitatimende zalezi zingqalabutho ziqala ukudweba isithombe esingatholakali kuthelevishini yezinkampani noma kumdlalo wevidiyo owenzelwe i-US Army.
"Awudutshulwa walala phansi wabala kwaba ngamashumi amahlanu bese ubuyela emdlalweni lapho uvuka." -Thomas Brown
“Abangane bami usesibhedlela eRaleigh. Wabulala intombazane eneminyaka engu-12 eyangena ekamu eboshwe nge-dynamite. Wayeyibhomu lokuzibulala. Sonke ngabe sabulawa. Nguye kuphela owayenenhliziyo yokumdubula. Kumphazamisile ekhanda kanti usesibhedlela sabagula ngengqondo. ” –Charles Battle
Kungani engazange avele ahlekise ihlaya ngemuva kokubulala le ntombazane ngendlela abebengenza ngayo kwi-movie? Ngabe wayebuthakathaka futhi ebuthakathaka, hhayi ngokuya ngamazinga kaDonald Trump ongakwazi ukuthola ukuphawula okungekuhle ngumuntu we-TV ngaphandle kokubonisa izimpawu ze-PTSD? Cha, wayejwayelekile. Impi ayikho.
“Umuntu ojwayelekile akafuni ukubulala futhi uzokugwema ngazo zonke izindlela. Amasosha ngeke akuvumele ukuthi uhlale uphilile. ” -Larry Kerschner
“Ngemuva kokuthi impi iphelile ngenxa yecala lomuntu osindile nenjabulo yalowo osindile balwa impi yabo emphefumulweni wakho. Ukulwa akuyona iTV noma ama-movie. Linomsindo, lingcolile, liyashisa futhi ligcwele ukukhala kwabalimele nabafa. Uma ihlala isikhathi eside ngokwanele iphunga lokubola lishubile. ” –UGreg Hill
Amadoda nabesifazane abaningi ababambe iqhaza ekwenzeni le ncwadi bahlose ukudikibala abanye ukuthi bangenele.
“Kufanele wazi ukuthi impi akuyona into yothando. Uba yingxenye yomshini wokubulala futhi unesandla ekubulaweni kwabantu abangenacala, ekucekelweni phansi kwamadolobha, ekucekelweni phansi kwemvelo ngisho noma ungakaze udonse isibhamu noma uwise ibhomu. ” -Allen Hallmark
“Ningaqambi amanga kini noma ezinganeni zenu uma kuziwa empini [sic]. Ungabavumeli bakhule babe amasosha afile. ” -Penny Dex
Uma ukhuluma ngokumelene nempi, okungenani uma ungewona umakadebona, uvamise ukusolwa ngokuthi "uyawazonda amasosha." Angazi. Ngithanda amabutho. Ngibathanda kakhulu kangangokuba ngifuna ukubanikeza ithuba lokuthola imfundo yamahhala yasekolishi kanye nomsebenzi owanelisayo, owusizo ngomholo ophilayo, njengenye indlela yokubhaliswa. Uma ungafuni ukubanikeza lokho kukhetha, kufanele ngibuze: kungani ungabathandi ngaphezu kwakho? Ziyini kuwe, ziwula neziswidi, noma izinsiza zenkulumo-ze?
