Kuthiwani Uma Imikhuba Eyisikhombisa Yabantu Abaphumelela Kakhulu Yasetshenziswa Ezizweni?

Ibungazwe ngu-Al Mytty I-Peace Chronicle, Januwari 31, 2022

Incwadi ethengwa kakhulu, Imikhuba Eyisi-7 Yabantu Abaphumelela Kakhulu—Izifundo Ezinamandla Ekushintsheni Komuntu Siqu nguStephen R. Covey yakhululwa ngo-1989. Ngo-August 2011, Isikhathi umagazini esohlwini Izindlela ze-7 njengenye ye-“The 25 Most Influential Business Management Books”.

Ngenkathi ngiqala ukufunda le ncwadi ngo-1991, ngangimatasatasa emsebenzini wami womsebenzi ngizama ukulinganisa umsebenzi, impilo, umndeni, ubudlelwano bebhizinisi, izimbangela zomphakathi, kanye nempilo yami yokomoya. Ukuthula komuntu siqu, ukuthula kobudlelwane, nokuthula komhlaba kwakungekho emicabangweni yami, ezimisweni, nasezenzweni zami.

Ngabuka izindaba kuthelevishini futhi ngakholelwa ukuthi iMpi YaseGulf Yase-US kwakuyimpi elungile yokuvikela abantu baseKuwait futhi iphoqelele i-Iraq ukuba ihambe eKuwait. Lapho iSoviet Union ihlakazeka, ngajabula. Bengicabanga ukuthi intando yeningi isincomile. I-US yayiyinqobile iMpi Yomshoshaphansi. Abantu baseMelika babengabafana abalungile, noma kanjalo ngacabanga ngokunganaki.

Angizange nginake ihlazo le-Iran-Contra lapho i-US ithengisela i-Iran izikhali ngokungemthetho futhi isebenzisa inzuzo yalokho kuthengiswa ukuze isekele i-Contras eNicaragua. Ngangazi okuncane ngokuqeqeshwa kwababulali base-US, kanye nokubulawa kwabantu eMelika Ephakathi.

Izifundazwe zaseBalkan zazingidida. Angikunakanga ukwanda kwe-NATO, ukubekwa kwezikhali eduze kakhulu neRussia, izisekelo zamasosha ase-US kanye nokufakwa okuhlakazeke emhlabeni wonke, kanye nosongo lwe-US kwaba ukuzinza komhlaba.

Ngokuhamba kweminyaka, ukunaka kwami ​​inqubomgomo yezangaphandle yase-US kwakhula. Ngiye ngabona ukuthi izinqubomgomo zase-US zigxila kuqala emandleni ezempi namandla, kuyilapho "sivikela izintshisekelo zethu zezwe." Ukuluthwa kwethu impi, impi, ukungenelela kwezempi, amacebo e-CIA, nokuketula umbuso, izindlela esithi ngazo sisekela inkululeko, intando yeningi, kanye nokubusa komthetho emhlabeni jikelele.

Manje sengithathe umhlalaphansi futhi nginikela ngesikhathi namandla ami njengesishoshovu sokuthula, ngaphinda ngafunda Izindlela ze-7. Ngiyazibuza, “Uma leyo mikhuba idala abantu abaphumelelayo, kanye nezinkampani ezisebenzayo, ngeke yini ikwazi ukwenza imiphakathi ephumelelayo ngisho namazwe? Ingabe lezi Izindlela ze-7 sibe yingxenye yohlaka lwezwe elinokuthula?”

Okuyisisekelo ku Izindlela ze-7 kuyinto Inqwaba ingqondo, indlela yokucabanga ukuthi kunezinsiza ezanele zaso sonke isintu. Ngokuphambene, a ukusobala i-mindset, ukucabanga komdlalo we-zero-sum, kusekelwe embonweni wokuthi uma omunye umuntu ewina, othile kufanele ahlulwe.

U-Covey uchaza imikhuba abantu abayidingayo ukusuka kokuncika baye kokuzimela futhi bathuthukele ekuncikeneni. Ngokufanayo, imiphakathi nezizwe, zingasuka ekwencikeni ziye ekuzimeleni ziye ekuncikeneni. Kodwa-ke, ukuzimela (izwe lami kuqala) ngaphandle kwenqubekelaphambili ekuncikeneni…kuholela ebudlelwaneni obuphikisanayo, ukuncintisana, kanye nempi.

Singakwamukela futhi samukele ukuncika kwethu futhi sibe nokuchichima kwengqondo, sikholelwa ukuthi kunokudla okwanele, amanzi, indawo, umoya, amandla avuselelekayo, ukunakekelwa kwezempilo, ukuphepha, nezinye izinsiza zabo bonke. Khona-ke sonke isintu singaphumelela hhayi nje ukusinda.

Ubhubhane lomhlaba wonke lube yithuba lokuveza ukuthembela kwethu komunye nomunye. Ukunciphisa ukushintsha kwesimo sezulu emhlabeni kungenye. Ukushushumbiswa kwabantu. Ukuhweba ngezidakamizwa. Izinkinga zababaleki. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwamalungelo abantu. Izikhali zenuzi. Indawo yokunciphisa amandla. Uhlu luyaqhubeka. Ngokudabukisayo, simosha amathuba okusebenza kahle futhi samukele ukuncika komunye nomunye, futhi umhlaba ucwila ezingxabanweni ezinodlame nasezimpini.

Ake sibone ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani i-Covey Izindlela ze-7 emazingeni esizwe, omphakathi, nakazwelonke angase asebenze ngokuchichima kwengqondo esikhundleni sokucabanga kwemidlalo eyizero-sum.

Umkhuba 1: Zimisele. Ukusebenza ithatha umthwalo wemfanelo wokusabela komuntu ezenzakalweni futhi ithatha isinyathelo sokusabela kahle. Ukuziphatha kwethu kuwumsebenzi wezinqumo zethu, hhayi izimo zethu. Sinesibopho sokwenza izinto zenzeke. Bheka igama elithi isibopho—“ikhono lokuphendula”—ikhono lokukhetha impendulo yakho. Abantu abakhuthele bayawubona lowo mthwalo wemfanelo.

Ezingeni lomphakathi nezwe, izizwe zinganquma ukuthi zisabele kanjani ezehlakalweni zomhlaba. Bangabheka ezivumelwaneni ezintsha, ukulamula, ukuvikelwa kwezakhamuzi ezingahlomile, iNkantolo Yobulungisa Yamazwe Ngamazwe, INkantolo Yamazwe Ngamazwe Obugebengu, i-UN General Assembly eguquliwe njengezindlela zokufuna ngokushesha izixazululo zezingxabano.

Umkhuba 2: “Qala ngesiphetho engqondweni”. Uyini umbono womuntu ngamunye, womphakathi, kazwelonke wekusasa—isitatimende semishini?

E-US, isitatimende semishini yisethulo soMthethosisekelo: "THINA BANTFU BASE-UNITED STATES, ukuze kwakhiwe iNyunyana ephelele, ukusungula ubulungiswa, ukuvikela Ukuzola kwasekhaya, ukuhlinzekela ukuzivikela okufanayo, ukukhuthaza Inhlalakahle evamile, futhi sivikele Izibusiso Zenkululeko kithina nakwiNzalo yethu, sigcobe futhi sisungule lo Mthethosisekelo wase-United States. yaseMelika.”

Ku-UN, isitatimende semishini yisandulela soMqulu: “THINA BANTU BENHLANGANO YEZWE SAZIMISA ukusindisa izizukulwane ezilandelayo osizini lwempi okuphindwe kabili empilweni yethu ilethe usizi olungenakulinganiswa esintwini, kanye nokuqinisekisa ukukholelwa emalungelweni abantu ayisisekelo, esithunzini nasekubalulekeni komuntu, emalungelweni alinganayo amadoda nabesifazane kanye namalungelo abantu. izizwe ezinkulu nezincane, kanye nokumisa izimo lapho ubulungisa nokuhlonipha izibopho ezivela ezivumelwaneni neminye imithombo yomthetho wamazwe ngamazwe kungagcinwa ngaphansi kwazo, kanye nokukhuthaza inqubekelaphambili yomphakathi kanye namazinga angcono empilo enkululekweni enkulu,

KANYE LEZI ZIPHETHO ukwenza ukubekezelelana nokuhlalisana ngokuthula omunye nomunye njengomakhelwane abahle, nokuhlanganisa amandla ethu ukuze silondoloze ukuthula nokulondeka kwamazwe ngamazwe, nokuqinisekisa, ngokwamukela izimiso kanye nokusungulwa kwezindlela, ukuthi amabutho ahlomile ngeke asetshenziswe, londoloza ngokwenzuzo efanayo, nokusebenzisa imishini yamazwe ngamazwe ukukhuthaza intuthuko yezomnotho nezenhlalakahle yabo bonke abantu,

Ngakho-ke, ingabe i-US iyasifeza isitatimende sayo somgomo? Kuthiwani ngeZizwe Ezihlangene nezizwe ezingamalungu ayo? Kusekude okufanele sikuhambe uma sifuna umhlaba “ophumelelayo”.

Umkhuba 3: “Beka izinto zokuqala kuqala”. UCovey ukhuluma ngakho okubalulekile ngokumelene nalokho okuphuthumayo.

Okubalulekile kufanele kube yilokhu okulandelayo:

• I-Quadrant I. Kuyaphuthuma futhi kubalulekile (Yenza)
• I-Quadrant II. Akuphuthumayo kodwa kubalulekile (Plan)
• I-Quadrant III. Kuyaphuthuma kodwa akubalulekile (Thumela)
• I-Quadrant IV. Akuphuthumayo futhi akubalulekile (Susa)

I-oda libalulekile. Yiziphi izinkinga eziphuthumayo nezibalulekile umhlaba obhekene nazo? Ukushintsha kwesimo sezulu emhlabeni wonke? Izinselelo zababaleki nokufuduka? Indlala? Izikhali zenuzi nezinye zokucekela phansi? Izifo eziwubhubhane zomhlaba? Izijeziso ezibekwe abanamandla kwabanye? Izimbangi ezichithwe kwezempi nasekulungiseleleni impi? Abashisekeli?

Abantu bomhlaba babeyonquma kanjani? Kuthiwani nge-UN General Assembly, ngaphandle kokusongelwa kwe-veto evela kuMkhandlu Wezokuphepha?

Ukuncikana. Imikhuba emithathu elandelayo iyakhuluma ukuncika- ukusebenza nabanye. Cabanga ngezwe lapho bonke abantu beqaphela ukuthembela kwabo komunye nomunye. Besingaziphatha kanjani izifo eziwubhadane, ukushintsha kwesimo sezulu emhlabeni wonke, indlala, izinhlekelele zemvelo, ubutha nobudlova? Cabanga “ngengqondo yokuchichima.” Singasebenzisana ukuze isintu siphile?

Umkhuba 4: "Cabanga ukunqoba-wina". Funa okuzuzisayo, win–win izixazululo noma izivumelwano. Ukwazisa nokuhlonipha abanye ngokufuna “inzuzo” yabo bonke kungcono kunokuba omunye ephumelele futhi omunye ehlulwe.

Cabanga ngomhlaba wethu namuhla. Ingabe sifuna ukunqoba, noma sicabanga ukuthi kufanele siwine nganoma iyiphi indlela? Ingabe ikhona indlela yokuthi izinhlangothi zombili ziwine?

Umkhuba 5: “Funani kuqala ukuqonda, khona-ke nize niqondwe”, Sebenzisa onozwela ukulalela ngobuqotho ukuqonda esinye isikhundla. Lokho kulalela ngozwela kusebenza kuzo zonke izinhlangothi. Bonke abantu nezizwe kufanele bafune ukuqonda ukuthi izitha zabo zifunani. Cabanga nje uma ukufuna kuqala ukuqonda kungaba umkhuba. Ukuqonda akusho ukuvumelana.

Ukungezwani nokungqubuzana kuyohlala kwenzeka. Nokho, impi nokubulalana kwabantu abaningi kuyoncipha lapho abantu beqondana ngobuqotho.

Umkhuba 6: “Vumelanisa”. I-Synergy isho ukuthi yonke inkulu kunesamba sezingxenye zayo. Cabanga ngalokho imiphakathi nezizwe ezingakufeza lapho zifuna ukusebenzelana okuphumelelayo, zifuna ukuqondana, futhi zisebenzelana ndawonye ukuze zifinyelele imigomo ezingenakuyenza zizodwa!

Umkhuba 7: “Lola isaha”. Njengoba nje abantu bedinga ukunakekela amathuluzi abo, ngakho izizwe zidinga ukuhlola futhi zicije amakhono namathuluzi adingekayo ukuze asebenze ngempumelelo. Amathuluzi empi nobudlova akuzange kulethe ukuthula. Amanye amathuluzi ayatholakala futhi alungele ukuthi siwasebenzise.

“Ukuthula komhlaba ngezindlela ezingezona ubudlova akuwona ubuwula futhi akunakufinyeleleka. Zonke ezinye izindlela zehlulekile. Ngakho, kufanele siqale kabusha. Ukungabi nodlame kuyisiqalo esihle.” UDkt Martin Luther King, Omncane.

Siyoyithatha nini indlela entsha yokucabanga? Kudingeka sishintshe imikhuba yethu yokucekela phansi imvelo, impi, impi, nobudlova sisebenzise imikhuba emisha. UDkt. King wabuye wasitshela ukuthi isintu kumelwe siqede impi, noma impi izoqeda isintu.