NguDavid Swanson
Our impikiswano yokuqala kwakunguFebhuwari 12th. Lokhu kwaba okwesibili, okwakubanjwe ngoFebhuwari 13, 2018, e-Eastern Mennonite University, elungiswa nguLisa Schirch.
I-bios yezikhulumi ezimbili:
Pete Kilner ungumlobi nomhleli wezempi okhonza iminyaka engaphezulu kwe-28 ku-Army njengomuntu osanda kuzalwa kanye noprofesa e-US Military Academy. Wathumela izikhathi eziningi e-Iraq nase-Afghanistan ukuqhuba ucwaningo mayelana nobuholi bezempi. Isiqu se-West Point, unomlando we-MA ku-Philosophy evela kuVirginia Tech kanye no-Ph.D. eMfundweni evela ePenn State.
UDavid Swanson ungumlobi, isishoshovu, umlobi wezindaba kanye nomsakazo womsakazo. Ungumqondisi we WorldBeyondWar.org. Amabhuku ka-Swanson ahlanganisa Impi Ngamanga futhi Impi Akukaze Imane. Ungumqashi we-2015, 2016, 2017 Nobel Peace Prize. Uphethe i-MA kufilosofi kusuka ku-UVA.
Akukho mzamo ophelele owenziwe ukuhlola izethameli mayelana nomthelela wenkulumompikiswano. Khombisa impendulo yakho, sicela, esigabeni sokuphawula ngezansi.
Lawa kwakungamazwi ami okulungiselelwe:
Siyabonga ngokusingatha lokhu nokuba lapha. Mina noPete siphikisane izolo ebusuku eRadford. Ividiyo iku-davidswanson.org. Futhi savumelana, njengoba iningi laleli lizwe livumile iminyaka, ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwemali kwezempi kufanele kwehliswe. Ngifuna yehliswe kancane kancane ibe zero. Angazi ukuthi uPete uyifunaphi, kepha akayifuni ngo-zero. Kodwa-ke, nginesiqiniseko sokuthi uma ukusetshenziswa kwezempi kuncishiswe kakhulu, uzobona umjaho wezingalo obuyela emuva, ukwehla kwezinsongo nobutha phesheya, futhi ngenxa yalokho isifiso somphakathi esikhulu sokuqhubeka nokunciphisa ngokweqile. Ngakho-ke, ngomqondo othile, asiyidingi le mpikiswano, sidinga intando yeningi nje kuphela kunezimpi egameni lentando yeningi nohulumeni oqhubeka unyaka nonyaka ehambisa imali ethe xaxa cishe cishe kukho konke okunye nakwezempi. Kepha ukwakha inhlangano enamandla ngokwanele ukuthonya i-oligarchy yase-US siyayidinga le mpikiswano, sidinga ukuqonda okucacile ukuthi akukho mpi engake ilungiswe, ngakho-ke ukulahla ngaphezu kwezigidigidi zamaRandi ngonyaka ukulungiselela impi engenzeka ukumisa. Ngemuva kwakho konke, amaphesenti ama-3 yaleyo mali angaqeda indlala emhlabeni, iphesenti elilodwa lingaqeda ukuntuleka kwamanzi ahlanzekile, isigaxa esikhulu singasinika ithuba lokulwa nokuguquka kwesimo sezulu (kunokuba sisebenze njengembangela ehamba phambili yokuguquka kwesimo sezulu). Ngakho-ke yisikhungo sempi esibulala kakhulu kunezimpi zangempela, futhi asikwazi ukwakha amandla okuyinciphisa inqobo nje uma abantu becabanga ukuthi kungenzeka kube nempi elungile ngolunye usuku.
Mina noPete savumelana futhi ukuthi izimpi eziningi bezingalungile. Ngizokhuluma kancane ngokuthi kungani izimpi athi zinobulungiswa empeleni zazingenabulungisa ngokwemibandela yazo futhi zodwa. Kepha ngicabanga ukuthi umthwalo wempi elungile uphakeme kakhulu kunalokho. Ngicabanga ukuthi impi, yokwenza okuhle kakhulu kunokulimaza, kufanele yenze okuhle kakhulu kunokulimaza ukwedlula umonakalo owenziwe yizo zonke izimpi ezamukelwa ngokungafanele kanye nokuphambukiswa kwemali lapho kungonga futhi kuthuthukise izigidi izimpilo kunokuba zibamoshe. Impi iyisikhungo, futhi ukuze noma iyiphi impi ilungiswe kufanele ilungise wonke umonakalo owenziwe yisikhungo.
Kepha uPete ubize izimpi ezimbalwa nje futhi ezimbalwa azinabulungisa ngaphandle kokuthi asinikeze indlela ezosivumela ukuthi sinqume ukuthi yiziphi lapho sibheka kuzo zonke izimpi angazange azibhale ngenye indlela noma enye. Lokho kufaka phakathi izimpi abamba iqhaza kuzo: I-Afghanistan ne-Iraq. Ngo-2006 uPete wathi impi e-Iraq yayenza okuhle kakhulu e-Iraq. Ngambuza ngiphindelela ukuthi lokho kuhle kwakunjani futhi angikaze ngithole mpendulo. Wabiza le mpi eyaqala ngonyaka ka-2003 ngokuthi “ayinangqondo” nephutha. Uma ngabe yilokho okubiza ngokuthi yimpi ekhulisa kakhulu ukusetshenziswa kwegama elithi sociocide (okusho ukubhujiswa ngokuphelele komphakathi), ngiyazibuza ukuthi yiliphi izinga lokuhlatshwa elidingekayo ngaphambi kokuba impi ibhalwe okuthile okunzima njengokuthi "kubi" noma "akujabulisi" noma "Uyazisola ngobumnene."
Enye impi yamanje uPete avumile ukuthi ayinabulungisa kwakuyimpi yase-US-Saudi neYemen. Kepha uPete uzongijoyina yini ukunxusa amasosha ase-US ukuthi enqabe umyalo wokuziphatha okubi nowungekho emthethweni wokuthi babambe iqhaza kuleyo mpi? Akuwona yini umsebenzi wokuziphatha ofana nalowo wokukhuthaza ukubamba iqhaza kwezimpi okuthiwa yizimpi nje? Akuvezi yini enye yezinkinga eziningi ngokubiza amasosha aseMelika ngokuzithandela? Noma yini enye oyenza ngokuzithandela uvunyelwe ukuyeka ukuyenza. Liyini iphuzu lokufundisa amasosha isimilo uma kungafanele asebenze kukho?
UPete uzothi uchaze ukuthi iyini impi elungile, yimpi eyaliwa ngoba uhlaselwe. Ngaphandle kokuthi uzobe esevuma kalula ukuthi i-United States ibilokhu izilwa zonke lezi zimpi ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa. Ngakho-ke lokho akushoyo empeleni ukuthi omunye umuntu uhlaselwe, wavumela i-United States ukuthi ingene njengesenzo sokupha nosizo. Kepha, njengomthetho, lokhu kungenela akuthokozelwa, akuceliwe, akusizi ngalutho, kunalokho kuyaphazamisa, futhi, ngendlela, akukho emthethweni. Ngubani owafa futhi wenza i-United States iphoyisa lomhlaba? Akekho. Kepha izigidi zabantu zibulewe ngamaphoyisa. Imiphakathi yamazwe amaningi eyahlolwa ngo-2013 nguGallup yabiza i-United States ngokuthi iyisongo esikhulu sokuthula emhlabeni. Pew okutholiwe leyo mbono yanda ku-2017. Ukuze uqale ukuqonda ukuthi kungani, cabanga nje uma kwenye izwe liqala ukuqhuma amabhomu amaningana ngezikhathi ezithile ngobuhle yayo inhliziyo. Ukukhala “Kwesizwe Esikhohlakele!” ne- “War Criminal!” izonanela kuzo zonke izindaba zezinkampani.
Cabanga nje uma izwe elithile lifaka imicibisholo ngaphakathi nje eCanada naseMexico kubhekiswe e-United States, ngendlela i-United States eyenza ngayo eRussia. Ake ucabange uma bekufanele lokhu njengokuzivikela futhi baveze ukuthi kwenziwa nguMnyango Wezokuvikela okufakazele lokho. Kukhona ividiyo kaVladimir Putin ebuza owayeyiNxusa laseMelika uJack Matlock ngemicibisholo yase-US eduzane neRussia, kanti uMatlock utshela uPutin ukuthi angakhathazeki ngoba imicibisholo iyihlelo lwemisebenzi nje emuva ezifundazweni. Impendulo enjalo ibingasenelisa yini uma icala lihlehlisiwe? Ungakhathaleli ukuthi izifundo ezenziwe yiNyuvesi yaseMassachusetts-Amherst zikhombisa ngokusobala ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwemali kwezempi kusibiza ngemisebenzi kunokuba siyengeze.
Yize impi yamuva nje yase-US uPete athi yayingenakudlula umonakalo owenziwe yizo zonke izimpi zase-US esivumayo ukuthi zazingekhona ukuchezukiswa kwemali, ubungozi be-apocalypse yenuzi, ukulimala kwemvelo komshini wempi, ukulimala kwezepolitiki namasiko , ingozi engakhiqizi kunokuvikela, njll, ake ngibheke leyo mpi kafushane kakhulu.
Lona iMpi Ye-Persian Gulf. Khumbula ukuthi i-United States yayisebenzele ukuletha uSaddam Hussein amandla futhi ihlomile futhi yamsiza ekulweni ne-Iran iminyaka eminingi. Inkampani ebizwa Iqoqo le-American Type Culture Collection eManassas, eVirginia, unikeze uSaddam Hussein izinto zokwakha i-anthrax. Kamuva kuphela, lapho sekucaca ukuthi i-Iraq yayingenazo izikhali zenuzi eziphawuleka kakhulu, ukuzenzisa kokuthi yayinezinqolobane zayo ezinkulu ngandlela thile kwakuyisizathu sokubhomba isizwe esigcwele abantu, amaphesenti angama-99.9 abo ayengakaze axhawule izandla noDonald Rumsfeld. Kepha kwaqala iMpi YaseGulf. Njengazo zonke izimpi, kwaqala ngesikhathi sezinsongo, ezazingafani nokushesha nokuphuthuma kokuphanga emgwaqeni omnyama noma isifaniso esifanayo uPete athanda ukusisebenzisa. Eqinisweni, ngalesi sikhathi esikhishwe, inkampani yezobudlelwano bomphakathi yaqeqesha intombazane ukuba iqambe amanga kuCongress ukuthi i-Iraq ikhipha izingane kuma-incubator. Futhi phakathi naleso sikhathi i-Iraq yaphakamisa ukuthi ihoxe eKuwait uma u-Israyeli ezophuma ezindaweni zasePalestine ezihlalwa ngokungemthetho, kanti i-Iraq yaphakamisa izikhali zokubhubhisa abantu abaningi mahhala eMiddle East. Ohulumeni abaningi ngisho nomfana okuthiwa akaphuthelwa obizwa nge-The Pope unxuse i-US ukuthi iphishekele ukuthula. Impi ekhethwa yi-US. Ngokuphikisana okuthe xaxa nokufaniswa okungahlobene nokuzivikela komuntu siqu, i-US kule mpi yabulala amashumi ezinkulungwane zabantu base-Iraq ngenkathi behlehla.
Uyazi ukuthi kungani omongameli bakamuva ngaphandle kukaTrump bengazange baphakamise imikhosi emikhulu yamasosha? Kungenxa yokuthi ayikho neyodwa yezimpi zase-US kusukela nge-Gulf War eye yakwazi ngisho ukuzenzisa `` njengokunqoba. '' Iphuzu akukhona ukuthi sidinga ukunqoba ngemuva kwalokho okufanele sifune umbukiso, kepha kunalokho ukuthi ayikho into enjengokunqoba - iGulf War yayingeyona neyodwa - futhi sidinga ukulibona lelo qiniso eliyisisekelo ngaphambi kokuba konke kwaphenduka umlilo nokufutheka. Ukuqhuma kwamabhomu okungapheli nokujeziswa (ngubani okhumbula uMadeleine Albright ethi ukubulala izingane eziyingxenye yesigidi kwakuvumelekile?), Kanye nezimpi ezintsha, namasosha eSaudi Arabia, nobuphekula okuhlose ukukhipha amasosha eSaudi Arabia (ucabanga ini 9 / 11 kwaba, impela?), Kanye nokuqhubeka kokulwa eMiddle East, kanye nezifo ezesabekayo phakathi kwababalweli, nazo zonke ezinye izinto ezesabekayo ezalandela kusukela eGulf War zinikeza umbono osabekayo wokuthi “kwakuwukunqoba.” Uyazi ukuthi uthini umakadebona weGulf War uTimothy McVeigh washo izaba zokuqhumisa ibhilidi e-Oklahoma City? Njenge-Just War Theorist ephelele, wathi unenhloso ephakeme, ukuze isakhiwo nabantu ababulewe kuso kube ukulimala kwesibambiso. Futhi uyazi ukuthi kungani abantu bengazange bawele kulowo mugqa? Ngoba uMcVeigh wayengenakho ukulawula okuphumelelayo kwanoma yimaphi amanethiwekhi wethelevishini.
Ngendlela, ngikholwa ukuthi kufanele sinikeze i-Trump isivumelwano: enye impi yempi ngayinye iphela.
Oqokelwe ukhetho lukaPete 2 weMpi Yobulungisa yiBosnia. Njengoba yonke impi inoHitler, indoda uTony Blair owabiza uHitler ngalesi sikhathi kwakunguSlobodan Milosevic. Ngenkathi ekude kakhulu nomholi obabazekayo, waqanjwa amanga ngaye, impi yehluleka ukumketula, inhlangano ye-Otpur yokudala engenabudlova kamuva yamketula, kanti inkantolo yamacala obugebengu ye-UN kamuva yamkhipha kahle amacala akhe ngesinqumo eside kwesinye ummangalelwa. Izwe laseMelika belikusebenzele ngamandla ukwehlukana kweYugoslavia futhi livimba ngamabomu izivumelwano okuxoxiswene ngazo phakathi kwamaqembu. UNobhala-Jikelele we-UN ngaleso sikhathi uBoutros Boutros-Ghali uthe, “Emasontweni alo okuqala esezikhundleni, abaphathi bakaClinton sebenqume ukubulala uhlelo lweVance-Owen obekunganikeza amaSerbs amaphesenti angama-43 endawo yombuso ohlangene. Ngo-1995 eDayton, abaphathi baziqhenya ngesivumelwano sokuthi, ngemuva kweminyaka ecishe ibe mithathu yokwethuka nokubulawa, yanikeza amaSerbia amaphesenti angama-49 esifundazweni ahlukaniswa aba izinhlangano ezimbili. ”
Eminyakeni emithathu kamuva kwafika impi yaseKosovo. I-United States yayikholelwa ukuthi, ngokungafani neCrimea, iKosovo inelungelo lokubamba. Kodwa i-United States ayifuni ukuthi yenziwe, njengeCrimea, ngaphandle kwabantu ababulawa. Ngo-Juni 14, inkinga ye-1999 The Nation, UGeorge Kenney, owayengumphathi wedeski loMnyango Wezwe Yugoslavia, wabika: “Umthombo wezindaba ongatholakali ohamba njalo noNobhala Wombuso uMadeleine Albright utshele lo [mbhali] ukuthi, efungisa izintatheli ngemfihlo ejulile ezinkulumweni zaseRambouillet, isifundazwe esiphakeme Isikhulu soMnyango sasiqhoshe ngokuthi i-United States 'yabeka ngamabomu umugqa ophakeme kunowaseSerbia.' Ngokusho kwalesi sikhulu, amaSerbia ayedinga ukuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu ukuze abone isizathu. ” UJim Jatras, ongumsizi wenqubomgomo yamazwe angaphandle kumaSenate Republican, wabika enkulumweni yakhe kaMeyi 18, 1999 eCato Institute eWashington ukuthi "wayenegunya elihle" lokuthi "isikhulu esiphezulu kwezokuphatha sitshele abezindaba eRambouillet, ngaphansi kwemigoqo" okulandelayo: “Ngamabomu sibeka umugqa ophakeme kakhulu ukuthi amaSerbia awathobele. Badinga ukuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu, futhi yilokho abazokuthola. ” Ezingxoxweni ezaziphethwe yiFairness and Accuracy in Reporting, bobabili uKenney noJatras baqinisekisa ukuthi lezi kwakuyizingcaphuno ezingokoqobo ezibhalwe izintatheli ezazikhuluma nesikhulu sase-US.
I-United Nations ayizange igunyaze i-United States namalungu ayo e-NATO ukuba ibhomu iSerbia ku-1999. Futhi i-United States Congress yayingekho. I-US yenza umkhankaso omkhulu wokuqhuma amabhomu owabulala abantu abaningi, walimaza abaningi, wabhubhisa ingqalasizinda yomphakathi, izibhedlela, nezindawo zokuxhumana, futhi wadala inkinga yababaleki. Lokhu kubhujiswa kwafezwa ngamanga, ukuklama, nokunyanyisa ngamacala okuhlukumezeka, bese kulungele ukuthi izingane ziphenduke ubudlova obasiza ekukhiqizeni.
Ngonyaka owedlule ngaphambi kokuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu abantu abangaba ngu-2,000 80 babulawa, iningi labo labulawa ngabashokobezi baseKosovo Liberation Army, ababesekelwa yi-CIA, ababefuna ukugqugquzela impendulo yaseSerbia eyayizonxenxa amasosha aseNtshonalanga. Ngasikhathi sinye, ilungu leNATO iTurkey lalenza ubudlova obukhulu kakhulu, izikhali zabo ezingama-XNUMX% zivela eMelika. Kepha iWashington ibingafuni ukulwa neTurkey, ngakho-ke akukho mkhankaso wepropaganda owakhiwa ngamacala ayo; esikhundleni salokho ukuthunyelwa kwezikhali eTurkey kwandiswa. Ngokuphambene nalokho, umkhankaso we-propaganda okhohlisayo ophathelene neKosovo wasungula imodeli ezolandelwa ezimpini ezizayo, ngokuxhumanisa isihluku esenziwe ngehaba nesinganekwane ekuqothulweni kwamaNazi. Isithombe sendoda ezacile ebonwe ngocingo oluhlabayo sakhiqizwa ngokungapheli. Kodwa intatheli ephenyayo uPhilip Knightly inqume ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi yizintatheli nabathwebuli bezithombe ababesemuva kocingo oluhlabayo, nokuthi indawo eyathwetshulwa, nakuba yayimbi, yayiyinkambu yababaleki abantu, kuhlanganise nendoda ekhuluphele eyayimi eduze kwendoda ezacile, babekhululekile ukuhamba. Kwakunesihluku ngempela, kepha iningi lazo lwenzeka ngemuva kokuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu, hhayi ngaphambi kwaso. Iningi lokubika kwaseNtshonalanga likuguqula lokho kubalwa kwezikhathi.
Ngobusuku bokugcina uPete naye wabiza i-Israeli Six Days War ye-1967 njengempi ye-quintessentially efanelekayo ku-Israyeli. U-General General Matti Peled, isithandwa esivela kulowo mpi, unendodana okuthiwa uMiko Peled owabhala le minyaka eyisithupha eyedlule:
“Ngo-1967, njenganamuhla, izikhungo zombili zakwa-Israyeli kwakungu-IDF omkhulu kanye neKhabhinethi. NgoJuni 2, 1967, la maqembu womabili ahlangana endlunkulu ye-IDF. Amabutho ezempi abingelela undunankulu obeqaphe futhi obukhali, uLevi Eshkol, ngezinga elinjalo lokulwa kangangokuba umhlangano kamuva wabizwa ngokuthi 'yiQembu Labaholi'. Okubhalwe phansi kulowo mhlangano, engikuthole ezinqolobaneni zamabutho akwa-Israyeli, kuveza ukuthi ojenene bakwenza kwacaca ku-Eshkol ukuthi abaseGibhithe bazodinga izinyanga eziyi-18 kuya eminyakeni emibili ngaphambi kokuthi balungele impi ephelele, ngakho-ke isikhathi sesiteleka sokuqala. Ubaba utshele u-Eshkol: 'UNasser uqhubekela phambili nebutho elingalilungiselele kahle ngoba uthembele kwiKhabinethi ukuba manqikanqika. Ukungabaza kwakho kumsebenzele. ' . . . Kuwo wonke umhlangano, akuzange kukhulunywe ngosongo kepha kunalokho 'kunethuba' elalikhona, elizobanjwa. Ngokushesha nje, iKhabinethi yavumela ingcindezi yamasosha, kanti abanye, njengoba besho, sekuwumlando. ”
Okubizwa okuthiwa ukubulala okuningi, okulandelwa yiminyaka engamashumi eminyaka yomsebenzi wokuhlukunyezwa okungekho emthethweni, okufanelekile ngenxa yengozi yezinyanga ezingu-18, ngiphakamisa, kuthwala okufana nalokho okumele ukwenze uma ubona umuntu obhekene ne-mugger emgodini omnyama I-Harrisonburg. Njengoba ukuxhaphazwa izisulu kanye nodokotela ohlinzayo namaSamariya amahle abangeke balingise ukuziphatha kwabo nge-analalogies yempi, kuthiwani mayelana nathi senze okufanayo futhi singabonisi impi ngezilinganiso ezinzanjweni ezingafani?
Ku-2011, ukuze i-NATO ingaqala ukuqhuma amabhomu eLibya, i-African Union ivinjelwe yi-NATO ngokuletha uhlelo lokuthula eLibya.
Ngo-2003, i-Iraq yayivulelwe ukuhlolwa okungenamkhawulo noma ngisho nokuhamba kukamongameli wayo, ngokusho kwemithombo eminingi, kubandakanya nomongameli waseSpain uMongameli waseMelika uBush alandisa ngaye ngesicelo sikaHussein sokushiya.
Ku-2001, i-Afghanistan yayivulekile ukuguqula u-Osama bin Laden ezweni eliyisithathu ukuhlolwa.
Buyela emuva ngomlando. I-United States yaxoshwa iziphakamiso zokuthula zaseVietnam. ISoviet Union ihlongoza izingxoxo zokuthula ngaphambi kweMpi yaseKorea. ISpain yayifuna ukucwiliswa kwe USS Maine ukuya emibambiswaneni yamazwe ngamazwe ngaphambi kweMpi yaseMelika yaseMelika. UMexico wayezimisele ukuxoxisana ngokudayiswa kwesigamu senyakatho. Esimweni ngasinye, impi ekhethiwe yase-US. Ukuthula kufanele kugwenywe ngokucophelela.
Ngakho uma othile engibuza ukuthi ngingenzani esikhundleni sokuhlaselwa i-Afghanistan, nginezimpendulo ezintathu, kancane kancane kancane.
- Ungahlaseli i-Afghanistan.
- Ukushushisa ubugebengu njengobugebengu, ungenzi ubugebengu obusha. Sebenzisa idiplomacy nokubusa komthetho.
- Yenza umsebenzi wokudala umhlaba ngezinhlelo zobulungiswa nokuxazulula izingxabano kanye nemnotho kanye nezombangazwe ezingenazo zonke izikhungo zempi.
I-PS: Yonke imibuzo izobe imayelana neMpi Yezwe II noma ngabe ikuphi, ngakho-ke ngizovele ngiyigcinele leyo Q&A.
Ngiyabonga.
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Impendulo eyodwa
Ngiyabonga, futhi, uDavid noPete nanoma ubani omunye osizile ukubonisa le mpikiswano. Bengifisa ukuthi ngabe ngibuke zombili izinkulumompikiswano ngaphambi kokuthi ngiphawule nganoma iyiphi impikiswano ngayinye. Angikwazi neze ukukholelwa ukuthi akekho owake waphawula ngale mpikiswano (futhi wenza enye kuphela (ngaphandle kwami), ukuphawula ngenye ??? (kwakudideka ngenxa yezitatimende ezixhunyiwe futhi ezithile ezixhunyiwe). Noma kunjalo… Ngicabanga ukuthi le mpikiswano kungenzeka, ibisebenza kancane ekusizeni thina ukuthi sicabangele ukuthi ngabe ikhona yini impi efanelekile. Bobabili uPete noDavida babonakala befunda embukisweni wokuqala futhi bobabili benza okungcono kakhulu isethulo. Ngithokozela kakhulu uPete ukubalula incazelo yempi… mhlawumbe indawo yokuqala yale mpikiswano kungaba ukunikezwa kwencazelo okuvunyelwene ngayo ngempi. Lokhu kungasiza wonke umuntu ukuthi adlule ekuqhathaniseni nezinto ezingezona ezempi (futhi ngalesi sikhathi uPete… awuboni yini ukuthi awukwazi ukuqhathanisa izingxabano zomuntu siqu kanye nokubandakanyeka kwamaphoyisa empini ngenxa yomehluko omkhulu ???) UPete, abusise inhliziyo yakho, yakho, iyaqhubeka, ukuqhathanisa impi ngokuqondene nomuntu ongena ukusiza ekungqubuzaneni… noma ngabe usungeze into yoThando… sivikela ngothando esilusizayo ngothando nokunye… alunikezeli isizathu sangempela impi ingakwazi noma ayikwazi ukulunga. Ngokuqinisekile isenzo somuntu siqu esithatha isenzo ngokumelene nathi noma umuntu esimthandayo odingayo usizo lwethu kulungile. Impi iyisenzo esihlukile (nakuba ngabe sabuya emuva kwakukhona ukulingana okufanayo nokusebenzisa izizathu ezifanayo ezisetshenziswayo). UDavid, inkulumo yakho yokuvula yenziwe kahle kakhulu. Kungaba kuhle kakhulu uma lokhu kungokwakho konke okwakudingeka kuwe ukusiza abanye ukuba baqonde ukuthi akukho mpi eqiniswayo KODWA wazi okuningi okudingekayo. Futhi iqiniso elidabukisayo ukuthi indlela othumela ngayo lo mlayezo izosho icishe ifane nomyalezo uqobo lwawo… Ngiyacela… kini nobabili… ningakwazi yini ukumelana nesilingo sokwehlisa imibono yabanye noma izitatimende… ningasho ukuthi akulona iqiniso (nobabili enikwenzile) kepha uma nithi kungakuhle ukukhomba lapho iqiniso lingatholakala khona (UDavid wakwenza lokho ngenkathi ephakamisa ukuthi sibuke impikiswano yokuqala (engikwenzile). Le mpikiswano kungenzeka ukuthi yayidonsa abantu abaningi ababengaqiniseki ukuthi bazizwa kanjani ngezimpi. Kodwa ngithemba ukuthi akekho ovele ehamba ngaphandle kwanoma yikuphi ukuphikisana okushintshiwe ngaphandle kokwenza uphenyo lwangempela kulokho okuyiqiniso noma cha. Kunomphumela ongokwengqondo ovela ezinkolelweni zethu… sithambekele ekuhlaleni kulokho esivele sikukholelwa kuze kufike okuthile okumele kumelane ngokuqinile nezinkolelo zethu futhi kufanele sivulekele le nqubo… ngaphandle kwalokho sithambekele ekufuneni ukwesekwa lokho esikukholelwayo futhi sikuchithe esingakwenzi… Angazi nakancane ukuthi nina nobabili niyilungiselele kanjani le mpikiswano kodwa kukhona okufanele ngikucabangele… nina nobabili nibhala phansi wonke amaphuzu amakhulu enifisa ukuwenza bese ninikeza elinye lokho kanye nokunye okwenza amaphuzu esiphikisayo (ngokubhala) naleli phepha kungaya emuva naphambili kuze kube yilapho ngamunye wenu ezwa ukuthi omunye ulizwisise kahle iphuzu ngalinye futhi waliphikisa ngendlela ephumelelayo… bese uyavuma ukulandela leyo fomethi esivele iphikisiwe? ?? Futhi, lezi mpikiswano zibaluleke kakhulu KANYE ukuthi sithatha kanjani lolu hlobo lwempikiswano ezilalelini ezinkulu? Abantu abaningi badinga ukuthola le ngxoxo.