Uninzi lwabantu abafumana imfazwe ngokuthe ngqo, ngesandla sokuqala, kunokuba babukele iifilimu zaseHollywood okanye iintetho zezopolitiko, ngabantu abahlala apho kusiliwa khona iimfazwe. Kwiimfazwe ezibandakanya amazwe azizityebi kude kwelinye icala, i-95% yababuleweyo okanye abenzakeleyo okanye abonzakeleyo, kwaye i-100% yabo baqhushumbe emakhayeni abo ngabantu abalwa nabo imfazwe, uninzi lwabo bengabantu kwaye abanye abantu benza kanye le nto i-movie yaseHollywood okanye ipolitiki eya kuthi- ndibaxelele - ukwenza: ukulwa kwakhona.
Kodwa kusele elinye iqela, abahlaseli abavela kwilizwe elityebileyo elikude. Bancinci kakhulu kwinani kodwa amanani abo asemaninzi, kwaye-njengabantu ababahlaselayo-ukubandezeleka kwabo kunjalo ihlala ixesha elide. Uninzi lwabo lusweleka Ukuzibulala emva kwemfazwe kuthiwa iphelile kunokufa ngexesha layo. Izifo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo abazisa ekhaya banefuthe kubo nakwabo babangqongileyo nakwabanye abangekazalwa. Bayagculelwa njengabaphulukene okanye basebenzise njengepropu yokuthengisa iimfazwe ezininzi-oko kubizwa ngokuba nokukhetha kwiDemokhrasi enkulu yeHlabathi. Khetha uMbutho ohlekisa ngamagqala ngelixa usenza ngaphezulu kwabo okanye iqela elibazukisayo ngelixa besenza uninzi lwabo. Ngaphandle kokwenza ezo zikhetho zibini ngoSuku loNyulo oluNgcwele, ngoba, kufanelekile ukuba uqhushumbe njengabo bonke abantu abangenademokhrasi iimfazwe ezilwelwa kuzo.
Bacinga ntoni amagqala emfazwe? UNancy Hill ubuze uninzi lwazo kwaye wapapasha iimpendulo zabo kunye neefoto zabo. Uye waquka amagqala aseMelika kwiMfazwe yesibini (II) yeHlabathi kwiimfazwe ezikhoyo. Ufake iimbono ezininzi. Ngelixa uninzi lwabo lusencwadini yakhe, Imfazwe: Amazwi amaVeterans, bangamalungu eqela elinoyikekayo lomlo wamaVeterans Oxolo, kwaye isampulu ngokuqinisekileyo ayimele amagqala aseMelika xa ewonke, kukho abantu ababoniswayo apha abagxekayo, kunye nabanye abaguqulayo, ubuxoki bemfazwe.
"Imfazwe yeyabantu abadumileyo ngokuxhaphaza amanye amazwe." -Harvey L UThststad.
"Ijoni likhusela amanye amalungelo kwaye nokuba awuvumelani noko kwenziwa ngurhulumente, kufuneka ukhusele inkululeko yakho." -UJudith Lynne Johnston.
Ngokufanelekileyo nokuba awuphikisani ukuba imfazwe iyayikhusela inkululeko, kusafuneka uyilwile loo mfazwe ukukhusela inkululeko.
Kukho uluhlu oluvela kubuciko bokuchana ukuya kungangqinelani, ukusuka kwimibongo ukuya ekungafundini. Kodwa ngokudibeneyo, iingxelo zala magqala ziqala ukupeyinta umfanekiso ongafumanekiyo kumabonakude weqonga okanye kumdlalo wevidiyo oyilelwe ngumkhosi wase-US.
"Awudutyulwa uze ungqengqe uze ubale ukuya kumashumi amahlanu uze ubuyele emdlalweni xa uvuka." -Thomas Brown
“Oo bahlobo bam usesibhedlele eRaleigh. Wabulala intombazana eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala eyangena enkampini ibotshelelwe yidynamite. Wayeyibhombu yokuzibulala. Sonke ngesabulawa. Wayengoyena mntu wayenentliziyo yokumdubula. Imoshile entloko kwaye usesibhedlele sabagula ngengqondo. ” -Charles Idabi
Kutheni engakhange avele nje ahlekise emva kokubulala le ntombazana njengoko bebeya kwenza kumdlalo bhanyabhanya? Ngaba wayebuthathaka kwaye ethe-ethe, hayi ukuya kuthi ga kwimigangatho kaDonald Trump ongafumani magqabantshintshi kubuntu beTV ngaphandle kokubonisa iimpawu ze-PTSD? Hayi, wayeqhelekile. Imfazwe ayikho.
“Umntu oqhelekileyo akafuni kubulala kwaye uza kukuphepha ngazo zonke iindlela. Umkhosi awukuvumeli ukuba uhlale uqhelekile. ” -Larry Kerschner
“Emva kokuba idabi liphelile ityala labasindileyo kwaye uvuyo lwabo basindileyo balwa eyabo impi emphefumlweni wakho. Ukulwa akuyiyo iTV okanye iimuvi. Iyangxola, imdaka, ishushu kwaye igcwele zizikhalo zabonzakeleyo nabaswelekayo. Ukuba ihlala ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ivumba lokubola liyothuthuzela. ” -Greg Hill
Inani lamadoda nabafazi abathathe inxaxheba ekwenzeni le ncwadi ijolise ekunciphiseni abanye ekubhaliseni.
“Ufanele uyazi ukuba imfazwe asiyonto yothando. Uba yinxalenye yomatshini wokubulala kwaye unenxaxheba ekubulaweni kwabantu abamsulwa, ekutshatyalalisweni kweedolophu, ekonakaleni kwendalo nokuba awukhe uphume okanye uwise ibhombu. ” Allen Hallmark
“Sukuzixokisa okanye uxokise abantwana bakho xa kuziwa emkhosini [Sic]. Musa ukubavumela bakhule babe ngamajoni afileyo. ” -Penny Dex
Xa uthetha ngokuchasene nemfazwe, ubuncinci ukuba awulilo igqala, uhlala utyholwa ngokuba "uyayicaphukela imikhosi." Andiyi. Ndiyayithanda imikhosi. Ndiyabathanda kakhulu kangangokuba ndifuna ukubanika ithuba lokufumana imfundo yasimahla yasekholejini kunye nomsebenzi owanelisayo, oluncedo ngomvuzo ophilayo, njengenye indlela yokubhalisela. Ukuba awufuni ukubanika olo khetho, kuya kufuneka ndibuze: kutheni ungabathandi ngaphezu kokuba uthanda? Ziyintoni na kuwe, zidenge kunye nabasweleyo, okanye iipropu ze propaganda?
