Kuthekani Ukuba Imikhwa eSixhenxe Yabantu Abanempembelelo Kakhulu ibisetyenziswa kwiintlanga?

nguAl Mytty, Peace Chronicle, UJanuwari 31, 2022

Eyona ncwadi ithengiswa kakhulu, Imikhwa esi-7 yaBantu abaSebenzisayo-Izifundo ezinamandla kutshintsho lobuqu nguStephen R. Covey wakhululwa ngo-1989. Ngo-Agasti 2011, ixesha iphephancwadi elidwelisiweyo 7 Habits njengenye ye "25 Ezona ncwadi zinempembelelo zoLawulo lweShishini".

Ukuqala kwam ukufunda incwadi ngo-1991, ndandixakekile kumsebenzi wam wobugcisa ndizama ukulinganisa umsebenzi, ubomi, usapho, ubudlelwane bezoshishino, oonobangela boluntu, kunye nobomi bam bokomoya. Uxolo lomntu, uxolo lobudlelwane, kunye noxolo lwehlabathi lwalungekho kwiingcinga zam, iinqobo ezisemgangathweni kunye nezenzo zam.

Ndabukela iindaba kumabonwakude ndaza ndakholelwa ukuba iMfazwe ye-US Gulf yayiyimfazwe yobulungisa yokukhusela abantu baseKuwait nokunyanzela iIraq ukuba imke eKuwait. Xa iSoviet Union yaphelayo, ndavuya. Ndandicinga ukuba idemokhrasi yoyisiwe. I-US yayiphumelele iMfazwe Yomlomo. Abantu baseMelika yayingabafana abalungileyo, okanye ke ndacinga ngokungenangqondo.

Andizange ndinikele ingqalelo encinci kwi-Iran-Contra scandal xa i-US ithengisa izixhobo ngokungekho mthethweni kwi-Iran kwaye isebenzisa inzuzo yezo ntengiso ukuxhasa i-Contras eNicaragua. Ndandisazi kancinci malunga noqeqesho lwase-US lwababulali, kunye nokubulawa okwenziwe kuMbindi Merika.

Amazwe aseBalkan ayendibhida. Andizange ndikunanze ukwanda kwe-NATO, ukubekwa kwezixhobo kufutshane neRashiya, iziseko zomkhosi wase-US kunye nofakelo olusasazeke kwihlabathi lonke, kwaye isoyikiso i-US yayizinzo lwehlabathi.

Ukutyhubela iminyaka, ingqalelo yam kumgaqo-nkqubo wamazwe angaphandle wase-US iye yanda. Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba imigaqo-nkqubo yase-US igxila kuqala kumandla omkhosi kunye nokunyanzeliswa, ngelixa "sikhusela iimfuno zethu zelizwe." Ukukhotyokiswa kwethu emfazweni, emkhosini, kungenelelo lomkhosi, amacebo eCIA, kunye nokubhukuqa, ziindlela esithi ngazo sixhasa inkululeko, idemokhrasi, kunye nolawulo lomthetho kwihlabathi liphela.

Ngoku ndithathe umhlala-phantsi kwaye ndichitha ixesha namandla am njengomlweli woxolo, ndaphinda ndafunda 7 Habits. Ndiyazibuza, "Ukuba loo mikhwa yenza abantu abasebenzayo, kunye neenkampani ezisebenzayo, abanako ukwenza uluntu olusebenzayo kunye namazwe? Ngaba ezi 7 Habits ibe yinxalenye yenkqubo yehlabathi elinoxolo?”

Okusisiseko kwi 7 Habits yi buninzi ingqondo, indlela yokucinga ukuba kukho izixhobo ezaneleyo kulo lonke uluntu. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, a ukunqaba i-mindset, i-zero-sum game yokucinga, isekelwe kwingcamango yokuba ukuba omnye umntu uphumelele, umntu kufuneka alahlekelwe.

UCovey uchaza imikhwa ekufuneka abantu basuke ekuxhomekekeni baye kukuzimela kwaye baqhubele phambili baye kuxhomekeko omnye komnye. Ngokufanayo, uluntu kunye nezizwe, zinokusuka ekuxhomekekeni ziye ekuzimeleni ziye kuxhomekeko omnye komnye. Nangona kunjalo, ukuzimela (ilizwe lam kuqala) ngaphandle kwenkqubela phambili yokuxhomekeka omnye komnye…kukhokelela kubudlelwane beentshaba, ukhuphiswano, kunye nemfazwe.

Sinokwamkela kwaye sikwamkele ukuxhomekeka kwethu omnye komnye kwaye samkele intabalala yengqondo, sikholelwa ukuba kukho ukutya okwaneleyo, amanzi, indawo, umoya, amandla ahlaziyekayo, ukhathalelo lwempilo, ukhuseleko, kunye nezinye izixhobo zomntu wonke. Ke lonke uluntu lunokuphumelela hayi nje ukusinda.

Ubhubhani wehlabathi ube lithuba lokutyhila ukuxhomekeka kwethu omnye komnye. Ukunciphisa utshintsho lwemozulu yehlabathi yenye. Ukuthwalwa kwabantu. Urhwebo lweziyobisi. Iingxaki zeembacu. Ukuxhatshazwa kwamalungelo oluntu. Izixhobo zenyukliya. Indawo yokunciphisa amandla. Uluhlu luyaqhubeka. Okulusizi kukuba, siwachitha kakuhle amathuba okusebenza kunye nokwamkela ukuxhomekeka komnye, yaye ihlabathi litshona kungquzulwano olunogonyamelo nemfazwe.

Makhe sibone indlela yokusebenzisa iCovey 7 Habits kwinqanaba lesizwe, lentlalontle, kunye nelizwe linokusebenza ngengqondo yobuninzi endaweni yokucinga okuzii-zero-sum game.

Umkhwa woku-1: Zimisele. Umsebenzi uthwala uxanduva ngendlela ubani asabela ngayo kwiziganeko aze athabathe inyathelo lokuqala lokusabela ngendlela eyakhayo. Ukuziphatha kwethu ngumsebenzi wezigqibo zethu, hayi iimeko zethu. Sinoxanduva lokwenza izinto zenzeke. Jonga igama elithi uxanduva—“amandla okuphendula”—ubuchule bokukhetha impendulo yakho. Abantu abakhutheleyo bayaluqonda olo xanduva.

Kwinqanaba lentlalontle kunye nelizwe, izizwe zinokuthatha isigqibo malunga nendlela yokusabela kwiziganeko zehlabathi. Banokukhangela kwizivumelwano ezitsha, ulamlo, ukukhuselwa kwabantu abangaxhomanga, iNkundla yezoBulungisa yaMazwe ngaMazwe, iNkundla yoLwaphulo-mthetho yamazwe ngamazwe, iNdibano yeZizwe eziManyeneyo ehlaziyiweyo zonke njengeendlela zokukhangela izisombululo kwiingxabano.

Umkhwa wesi-2: "Qala ngesiphelo engqondweni". Uthini umbono womntu, woluntu, wesizwe ngekamva—ingxelo yobuthunywa?

Kwi-US, ingxelo yobuthunywa siSingeniso soMgaqo-siseko: "THINA ABANTU BASE-UNITED STATES, Ukuze wenze uManyano olugqibeleleyo, ukuseka ubuLungisa, uqinisekisa ukuzola kwasekhaya, ukubonelela ngokhuselo oluqhelekileyo, ukukhuthaza iNtlalontle ngokubanzi, kwaye ukhusele iiNtsikelelo zeNkululeko kuthi nakwiNzala yethu, simisele kwaye simisele lo Mgaqo-siseko eUnited States. yaseMelika.”

KwiZizwe eziManyeneyo, ingxelo yobuthunywa siSingeniso soMnqophiso: “THINA BANTU BEZIZWE EZIMANYENEYO SAZIMISELA ukusindisa izizukulwana ezilandelayo kwisibetho semfazwe ethe kabini kubomi bethu yazisa usizi olungathethekiyo eluntwini, kwanokuqinisekisa ukholo kumalungelo oluntu asisiseko, kwisidima nokuxabiseka komntu, kumalungelo alinganayo amadoda nabafazi, izizwe ezinkulu nezincinci, kunye nokuseka iimeko apho ubulungisa kunye nentlonipho yezibophelelo ezivela kwizivumelwano kunye neminye imithombo yomthetho wamazwe ngamazwe inokugcinwa, kunye nokukhuthaza inkqubela phambili yentlalo kunye nemigangatho engcono yobomi kwinkululeko enkulu,

KWAYE KWEZI IZIPHELO ukwenza ukunyamezelana nokuhlalisana ngoxolo omnye nomnye njengabamelwane abalungileyo, nokumanyanisa amandla ethu okugcina uxolo nonqabiseko lwezizwe ngezizwe, nokuqinisekisa, ngokwamkelwa kwemigaqo kunye neziko leendlela, ukuba umkhosi oxhobileyo awuyi kusetyenziswa; ukonga ngokwenzuzo efanayo, nokusebenzisa oomatshini bamazwe ngamazwe ukukhuthaza uphuhliso lwezoqoqosho nezentlalo zabo bonke abantu,

Ke, ngaba i-US izalisekisa ingxelo yayo yobuthunywa? Kuthekani ngeZizwe Ezimanyeneyo namazwe angamalungu azo? Kusekude ukuba sihambe ukuba sifuna ihlabathi "elisebenzayo".

Umkhwa wesi-3: “Beka izinto zokuqala kuqala”. Covey uthetha malunga yintoni ebalulekileyo xa ithelekiswa nengxamisekileyo.

Okuphambili kufuneka kube ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

• I-Quadrant I. Ingxamisekile kwaye ibalulekile (Yenza)
• IQuadrant II. Ayingxamisekanga kodwa ibalulekile (Isicwangciso)
• IQuadrant III. Ingxamisekile kodwa ayibalulekanga (Mthunywa)
• Iquadrant IV. Ayingxamisekanga kwaye ayibalulekanga (Susa)

Umyalelo ubalulekile. Yeyiphi imiba engxamisekileyo nebalulekileyo elijamelene nayo ihlabathi? Ukutshintsha kwemozulu yehlabathi? Imingeni yembacu kunye nokufuduka? Indlala? Izixhobo zenyukliya nezinye ezitshabalalisa abantu abaninzi? Iindyikityha zehlabathi? Izohlwayo ezibekwe ngabanamandla kwabanye? Izixa ezikhulu ezichithwe kwimfazwe nasekulungiseleleni imfazwe? Ngabantu abaneembono ezibaxiweyo?

Babeza kwenza isigqibo njani abantu behlabathi? Kuthekani ngeNdibano yeZizwe eziManyeneyo, ngaphandle kwesoyikiso se-veto evela kwiBhunga lezoKhuseleko?

Ukuxhomekeka. Imikhwa emithathu elandelayo iyathetha ukuxhomekeka-ukusebenza nabanye. Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wehlabathi apho bonke abantu bekuqonda ukuxhomekeka kwabo omnye komnye. Besiya kulawula njani oobhubhani, ukutshintsha kwemozulu yehlabathi, indlala, iintlekele zemvelo, ubutshaba nogonyamelo? Cinga "ngengqondo yobuninzi." Ngaba singasebenzisana ukuze uluntu luphile?

Umkhwa wesi-4: “Cinga u-win-win”. Funa okuyingenelo ngokufanayo, win-win izisombululo okanye izivumelwano. Ukuxabisa nokuhlonipha abanye ngokufuna “ukuphumelela” kubo bonke kungcono kunokuba omnye ephumelele aze omnye aphulukane.

Cinga ngehlabathi lethu namhlanje. Ngaba sifuna ukuphumelela, okanye sicinga ukuba kufuneka siphumelele nangaliphi na ixabiso? Ngaba ikho indlela yokuba amacala omabini aphumelele?

Umkhwa wesi-5: “Funani kuqala ukuqonda, nandule ke niqondwe”, Sebenzisa unovelwano ukumamela ngokunyanisekileyo baqonde esinye isikhundla. Oko kuphulaphula ngovelwano kusebenza kuwo onke amacala. Zonke izizwe nezizwe zifanele zifune ukuqonda ukuba yintoni na efunwa ngababandezeli bazo. Khawucinge ukuba ukufuna ukuqonda kuqala kunokuba ngumkhwa. Ukuqonda akuthethi ukuvumelana.

Ukungavisisani kunye neengxabano ziya kuhlala zisenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, imfazwe kunye nokubulawa kwabantu abaninzi kuya kuba nzima xa abantu beqondana ngokunyanisekileyo.

Umkhwa wesi-6: “Nxibelelanisa”. I-Synergy ithetha ukuba yonke into inkulu kunesixa samalungu ayo. Khawufan’ ucinge into enokwenziwa luluntu nezizwe xa zifuna ubuhlobo bokwenene, zifuna ukuqondana, zize zisebenze kunye ekufikeleleni usukelo ezingenakukwazi ukuzenza zizodwa!

Umkhwa wesi-7: “Lolwa isarha”. Kanye njengokuba umntu ngamnye kufuneka azikhathalele izixhobo zakhe, ngoko izizwe kufuneka zivavanye kwaye ziphucule izakhono kunye nezixhobo ezifunekayo ukuze zisebenze. Izixhobo zemfazwe nogonyamelo aziluzisanga uxolo. Ezinye izixhobo ziyafumaneka kwaye zikulungele ukuba sizisebenzise.

“Uxolo lwehlabathi ngeendlela ezingenabundlobongela alukho ngqiqweni okanye alunakufumaneka. Zonke ezinye iindlela aziphumelelanga. Ngoko ke, kufuneka siqale ngokutsha. Ukungabi nabundlobongela sisiqalo esihle. " UGqr. Martin Luther King, Omnci.

Siya kuyithatha nini indlela entsha yokucinga? Kufuneka sitshintshe imikhwa yethu yokutshabalalisa indalo esingqongileyo, imfazwe, imfazwe, kunye nobundlobongela ngemikhwa emitsha. UGqr. King ukwasixelela ukuba uluntu kufuneka luphelise imfazwe, okanye imfazwe iya kuluphelisa uluntu.