Ngu: Cathy Breen, iiVoice ze-Creative nonviolence
Ndibhale rhoqo malunga nomhlobo wethu weembacu eIraq kunye nonyana wakhe omkhulu waseBaghdad. Ndiza kubabiza ngokuba ngu-Mohammed no-Ahmed. Benza inqwelomoya ebhabha kunyaka ophelileyo ukusuka eBaghdad ukuya eKurdistan emva koko banqumla eTurkey. Babekwiziqithi ezintathu zamaGrike ngaphambi kokuba banikwe imvume yokuqhubeka nohambo lwabo. Baye badlula kumazwe aliqela ngexesha lokuvalwa kwemida. Bafika ekugqibeleni apho babesiya khona ngasekupheleni kukaSeptemba 2015. IFinland.
Ndihleli nolu sapho eBaghdad, ndinobuso benkosikazi kunye nomnye wabantwana phambi kwam. Apha ngezantsi kukho ifoto yabantwana ababini baka-Mohammed.
Ngokubanzi, ndisebenzisa amagama kaMahammad, ndimcaphula kwingxelo yomntu wokuqala. Ubalise ibali lohambo lwabo olunxunguphalisayo lokusongela ubomi ngaphezulu konyaka odlulileyo. Baye eFinland benethemba lokuba bambalwa ababaleki abaya kuhamba umgama omde, ukuze bafumane indawo yokhuseleko ngokukhawuleza kwaye baphinde badibane nosapho lwabo, inkosikazi kaMohammad kunye nabanye abantwana abathandathu e-Iraq. Kunye neqela elincinci labahlobo, uKathy Kelly kunye nam sikwazile ukubandwendwela eFinland kubanda obunzulu busika kulo Januwari udlulileyo. Sikwazile ukubazisa iintsuku ezimbalwa ukusuka enkampini ukuya eHelsinki apho bamkelwe ngokufudumeleyo ngabantu abaninzi baseFinland ababandakanyeka kumbutho woxolo, iintatheli phakathi kwabo.
Ekupheleni kukaJuni u-Mohammed wasibhalela malunga nokudakumba kunye nokudakumba phakathi kweembacu kwinkampu yabo njengoko uninzi lwabo lwalusala ukukhuselwa. Ubhale ukuba nababaleki baseIraq abavela eFallujah, eRamadi naseMosel bafumana ukwaliwa. “Andazi ukuba ndiza kwenza ntoni xa ndifumana impendulo embi. Kwezi veki zintathu zidlulileyo kuza iimpendulo ezimbi kuphela. ” Ke ngasekupheleni kukaJulayi kwafika iindaba ezothusayo zokuba elakhe ityala laliwe.
“Namhlanje ndithathe isigqibo sokungena kwelinye ilizwe sokuba ityala lam saliwe. Mna no-Ahmed asamkelekanga eFinland. Enkosi ngayo yonke into oyenzileyo. ” Ngosuku olulandelayo wabhala kwakhona. “Namhlanje lolona suku lukhulu ebomini bam. Wonke umntu, nyana wam, umzala wam kunye nam… .sathula nje. Sothukile sisigqibo. Ukuphulukana nomntakwethu, ndagwetywa iminyaka emibini, ndaxhwilwa, ndangcungcuthekiswa, ndaphulukana nendlu yam, abazali, utata womkhwe, ileta yokugrogrisa ngokufa kunye nokuzama ukumbulala. Ngaphezulu kwe-2 izalamane ezibuleweyo. Yintoni enye endimele ndibanike yona ukuze bandikholelwe? Inye kuphela into endiyilibeleyo, kukungenisa isatifikethi sam sokufa. Ingathi ndiyaxhelwa. Andazi ukuba ndithini kumfazi nabantwana bam [eBaghdad]. ”
Sifunde oko ukuba iFinland ibonelela ngendawo yokuhlala kwi-10% kuphela yabantu abafuna indawo yokhuseleko. Isibheno siyaqhubeka, kwaye abantu abaninzi babhale iileta egameni lika-Mohammed. Akucaci ukuba isicelo sakhe siyakwamkelwa.
Okwangoku, imeko e-Iraq nase-Baghdad iyaqhubeka nokuba mandundu malunga nokuqhushumba kwemihla ngemihla, ukuzibulala ngeebhombu, ukubulala, ukuxhwila, i-ISIS, amapolisa, umkhosi kunye nomsebenzi wezomkhosi. Inkosikazi yakhe ihlala kwilali evulekileyo nechuma lula. Umntakwabo, owayehlala ephosa ilitye, kwafuneka abaleke nosapho kwiinyanga ezininzi ezidlulileyo ngenxa yezisongelo zokubulawa. Oku kwashiya umfazi nabantwana bakaMahammad bengakhuselekanga. Ngexesha likaRamadan Mohammed wabhala: “Imeko imbi kakhulu kwezi ntsuku. Umfazi wam wayeceba ukuthatha abantwana baye kwilali kanina ngexesha le-EID kodwa wayirhoxisa le ngcinga. ” Kwesinye isihlandlo wabhala wathi, “Umfazi wam ukhathazekile kakhulu ngonyana wethu wesibini omdala, esoyika ukuba uza kuthinjwa. Ucinga ukufuduka elalini. Namhlanje siphikisane kakhulu njengokuba endityhola, endixelela ukuba bendithe sizophinda sidibane ngaphakathi kweenyanga ze-6. "
Kumatyeli amabini akutshanje amadoda anxibe iyunifomu afike kwa-Mohammed efuna ulwazi ngo-Mohammed no-Ahmed. UMohammad ubhale wathi: “Izolo e 5am indlu yagqogqwa ngabafana abasemkhosini abaxhobileyo benxibe iyunifomu. Mhlawumbi ngamapolisa? Mhlawumbi umkhosi okanye i-ISIS? ” Kunzima ukuthelekelela uloyiko lomfazi ongazikhuselanga kaMohammad nabantwana, omncinci kubo uneminyaka emi-3 kuphela ubudala. Kunzima ukucinga ukuba u-Mohammed no-Ahmed boyike ukuba bakude lee. Ngamanye amaxesha unkosikazi kaMohammad uye wayifihla eyona nkwenkwana indala kwiingcongolo yindlu yabo, esoyika ukuba uza kuqeshwa ngenkani yi-ISIS okanye ngabezomkhosi! Uye woyika nokuhambisa abantwana esikolweni kuba imeko yezokhuseleko iyingozi kakhulu. Unomsindo ku-Mohammed, esoyika kwaye engaqondi ukuba kutheni bengadibananga emva konyaka.
Kutshanje u-Mohammed uthumele i-imeyile: “Ngokunyanisekileyo, Cathy, busuku ngabunye ndicinga ngokugoduka ndiphele kwezi mpikiswano. Ukuhlala kude nabantwana bakho obathandayo kunzima kakhulu. Ukuba ndibulawa ecaleni kosapho lwam, ke wonke umntu uya kusiqonda isizathu sokuba kufuneke sihambe kwaye iimpikiswano ziya kugqiba. Nokuba abafuduki baseFinland bayakuqonda ukuba ndiyinyani. Kodwa ngentsasa elandelayo ndaye ndaguquka ndaza ndagqiba kwelokuba ndilinde isigqibo sokugqibela senkundla. ”
Qho ebusuku ndisoyika ndive ngeendaba zakusasa zosapho oluvela kusapho lwam. Intombi yam indibuze ngefowuni kwiveki ephelileyo 'Tata, singahlala nini kwakhona. Ngoku ndineminyaka eli-14 kwaye awukho mde kakhulu. ' Wayophula intliziyo yam. ”
Kwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ubhale wathi: “Ndonwabe kakhulu ngenxa yokuba umkhenkce unyibilikile phakathi kwam nenkosikazi yam.” Inkwenkwana yakhe, iminyaka emi-6, kunye nentombi yakhe encinci iminyaka eyi-8 beye esikolweni namhlanje. Umfazi wam ukhaliphile kakhulu… .Ugqibe kwelokuba ahlawulele bonke abantwana ibhasi yesikolo. Uthe, 'Ndiyakholelwa kuThixo kwaye ndibathumela abantwana kwaye ndizibeka esichengeni.' ”
Ndihlala ndizibuza ukuba u-Mohammed uvuka njani ekuseni. Ngaba yena nenkosikazi yakhe banokujongana njani nemini? Isibindi sabo, ukholo lwabo kunye nokuqina kwabo kuyandifaka kum, kundicela umngeni kwaye kundityhala ukuba ndiphume ebhedini yam ekuseni.
