Indlela Sifundisa Ngayo Ubundlobongela Kwabantwana

NguDavid Soleil

Njengabazali abanenkathalo nabanenkathalo, asinakuze sifune ukufundisa abantwana bethu ukuba ugonyamelo luyimpendulo kuyo nayiphi na ingxaki. Sifuna abantwana bethu bafunde ukuhlalisana nabanye, babelane, babe nobubele, bathi “uxolo,” baze bazame kangangoko banako amazwi ovelwano athi, “Uxolo.”

Ndandicinga ukuba ndihambisana nobundlobongela obusingqongileyo kwinkcubeko yaseMelika. Nangona kunjalo, uhambo oluya kwivenkile yesebe lendawo kunye nabantwana bam izolo besothusa. Sangena kwipaseji zokudlala. Nantsi uluhlu olukhawulezayo lweethoyi kunye namanani entshukumo, ukuze...

  • Batman
  • Abantu abafuna Amandla
  • Star Wars
  • Umkhosi we-Elite - iithoyi zomkhosi zanamhlanje / zomkhosi
  • Wrestling yobuNgcali

Umgca olandelayo:

  • More Power Ranger
  • Iintshukumo zeTanen Mutant Ninja Turtles
  • Indoda yesigcawu
  • Super Hero Smashers
  • Abalinganiswa beMarvel Comics-Hulk, Avengers, Captain America, njl.
  • Abaguquleli

Isiphelo sekhonkco:

  • I-Horror Series-uMichael Meyers othatha isenzo kwiimuvi zeHalloween kunye no-Eric Draven ovela kwiCrow
  • Game of Thrones
  • umlingo
  • HALO

Indlela elandelayo:

  • I-Super Hero Adventures - ezi ziinguqulelo ezincinci ezintle zeSpider-Man, Batman, Wonder Woman kunye neHulk yabantwana abancinci.

Qaphela ipateni apha? Yonke into yokudlala, ngaphandle kokukhetha, isebenzisa ubundlobongela kunye nezixhobo ezibangela intlungu kunye / okanye ukufa njengesisombululo sabo kwiingxaki. Ke, kunye ne-Horror Series, sifanele sidlale i-serial Killer? Ngokunyanisekileyo?

Le nto ithumela myalezo mni kubantwana bethu? Ubundlobongela bubugorha. Ubundlobongela sisisombululo kuzo zonke iingxaki. Ubundlobongela bunamandla amakhulu.

Sikhwankqisiwe kwaye sicaphukile xa sibona i-ISIS inqunqa umntu kwiindaba zasebusuku, ukanti abantwana bethu badlala iimeko ezimanyumnyezi ezifanayo kunye namathoyizi esiwafumana ngomhla wabo wokuzalwa, iimuvi esibathatha ukuba bazibone, iincwadi ezihlekisayo esizithengelayo. bona, imiboniso abayibukela kumabonwakude, kunye nemidlalo yevidiyo esibathengela yona.

Siyintoni isisombululo sale nto? Ngaba ndifuna uthotho lwesenzo seSelma kwiThagethi? Mhlawumbi yi-Gandhi-bobble-head? (Ewe, ikhona...)

Ngelixa oko kuya kuba kuhle, isisombululo endisifunayo kukuxhobisa abazali ukuba bamele imilinganiselo yakho. Yima ekudaleni uxolo. Yima kwinkonzo yokungazingci kwabanye, ngenxa yemfesane novelwano. Abantwana bakho bajonge kuwe ukuba uchaze indlela yokusebenzisana nehlabathi. Thetha nabo malunga nemilinganiselo yakho, ngakumbi kwiThagethi, ngakumbi kwindawo yokudlala. Uzicombulula njani iingxaki? Yidibanise kukholo lwakho okanye inkqubo yakho yenkolelo. Kuthetha ntoni kuwe ukuba ngumKristu? UmSilamsi? Ngaba iUnitarian Universalist? Ngaba Ungumntu Onceda Abantu? Ngoobani amaqhawe amakhulu ebomini bakho kwaye ngoba?

Ngequbuliso, ezo zeplastiki "amagorha aphezulu" kunye nezixhobo zibonakala zibubudenge kwaye unxibelelwano lwentsapho yakho, ixabiso kunye nobudlelwane bukhule nzulu kakhulu. Yima womelele. Beka uxolo ezandleni zabo. Shiya ubundlobongela eshelufini.

UDavid Soleil, uququzelelwe ngu PeaceVoice,  nguSihlalo wangaphambili weqela leMfundo yobuNkokheli kuMbutho wobuNkokheli baMazwe ngaMazwe, umseki kunye nabasebenzi kwiSikolo se-K-12 saseSudbury saseAtlanta.

 

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