Zvakadini kana Tsika nomwe dzeVanhu Vanobudirira Dzakashandiswa kuMarudzi?

naAl Mytty, The Peace Chronicle, January 31, 2022

Bhuku rinotengeswa zvakanyanya, Tsika 7 Dzevanhu Vanobudirira-Zvidzidzo Zvine Simba Mukuchinja Kwemunhu naStephen R. Covey rakaburitswa muna 1989. Muna Nyamavhuvhu 2011, nguva yakanyorwa 7 Habits seimwe ye "Mabhuku makumi maviri neshanu Akanyanya Kupesvedzera Bhizinesi Rekutungamira".

Pandakatanga kuverenga bhuku muna 1991, ndakanga ndakabatikana mubasa rangu reunyanzvi ndichiedza kuenzanisa basa, hupenyu, mhuri, hukama hwebhizimisi, zvinokonzeresa munharaunda, uye hupenyu hwangu hwemweya. Runyararo pachangu, runyararo rwehukama, uye runyararo rwepasirese zvakange zvisiri mupfungwa dzangu, tsika, nezviito.

Ndakaona nhau paterevhizheni uye ndakadavira kuti Hondo yeGulf yeUnited States yakanga iri hondo yakarurama yokudzivirira vanhu veKuwait uye kumanikidza Iraq kubva muKuwait. Apo Soviet Union yakaparara, ndakafara. Ndakafunga kuti democracy yakanga yakunda. US yakanga yakunda Cold War. MaAmerican vaive vakomana vakanaka, kana saka ini ndakafunga zvisina musoro.

Ini handina kukoshesa kunyomba kweIran-Contra apo US yakatengesa zvombo zvisiri pamutemo kuIran uye yakashandisa purofiti yeaya kutengesa kutsigira Contras muNicaragua. Ini ndaiziva zvishoma nezve kudzidziswa kweUS kwemhondi, uye kuponda kwakaitwa muCentral America.

Nyika dzeBalkan dzaindivhiringa. Ini handina kufuratira kuwedzera kweNATO, kuiswa kwezvombo padyo neRussia, zvigaro zvemauto eUS nekuisa zvakapararira pasirese, uye kutyisidzira kweUS kwaive kugadzikana kwenyika.

Nokufamba kwemakore, pfungwa dzangu kumutemo weUnited States wokune dzimwe nyika dzakawedzera. Ndasvika pakuona kuti mitemo yeUnited States inotarisa pamasimba emauto nechisimba, apo isu "tichidzivirira zvido zvedu." Kupindwa muropa kwedu nehondo, mauto, kupindira kwemauto, zvirongwa zveCIA, uye coups, ndidzo nzira dzatinoti tinotsigira rusununguko, democracy, uye kutonga kwemutemo pasi rese.

Iye zvino ndarega basa uye ndichipa nguva yangu nesimba semurwiri werunyararo, ndakaverenga zvakare 7 Habits. Ndinoshamisika, "Kana tsika idzodzo dzichiita vanhu vanobudirira, uye makambani anoshanda, havangakwanisewo kugadzira nzanga dzinoshanda uye kunyangwe nyika? Vanogona izvi 7 Habits kuva rutivi rwegadziriro yenyika ine rugare?”

Basic to the 7 Habits chiri zvakawanda pfungwa, nzira yekufunga kuti kune zviwanikwa zvakakwana kune vese vanhu. Mukusiyana, a chishoma mindset, zero-sum game kufunga, yakavakirwa papfungwa yekuti kana mumwe munhu akakunda, mumwe munhu anofanira kurasikirwa.

Covey anotsanangura maitiro anofanirwa kuitwa nevanhu kubva pakutsamira kuenda pakuzvimiririra uye kufambira mberi kuenda kune kudyidzana. Saizvozvovo, nzanga nenyika, zvinogona kubva pakutsamira kuenda pakuzvimiririra kuenda pakudyidzana. Nekudaro, rusununguko (nyika yangu kutanga) pasina kufambira mberi kune kudyidzana ...

Tinogona kugamuchira nekumbundikira kudyidzana kwedu uye kutora hunhu huzhinji, tichitenda kuti kune chikafu chakakwana, mvura, nzvimbo, mweya, simba rinogoneka, hutano, chengetedzo, uye zvimwe zviwanikwa kune vese. Ipapo vanhu vese vanogona kubudirira kwete kungopona.

Denda repasi rose rave mukana wekuratidza kudyidzana kwedu. Kuderedza kushanduka kwemamiriro ekunze epasi rose ndeimwewo. Kubiwa kwevanhu. Kutengeserana kwezvinodhaka. Matambudziko evapoteri. Kutyorwa kwekodzero dzevanhu. Zvombo zvenyukireya. Demilitarizing nzvimbo. Ndaza inoenderera mberi. Zvinosuruvarisa, tinopedza mikana yekubudirira uye kugamuchira kudyidzana, uye nyika inonyura mukurwisana kunotyisa uye hondo.

Ngationei kushandisa Covey's 7 Habits padzinza, magariro, uye nhanho yenyika inogona kushanda nemafungiro akawanda pane zero-sum game kufunga.

Habit 1: Shingairira. Proactivity ari kutora mutoro wezvinoitika zvomunhu uye kutora danho rokutanga kupindura zvakanaka. Maitiro edu ibasa rezvisarudzo zvedu, kwete mamiriro edu. Tine basa rekuita kuti zvinhu zviitike. Tarisa izwi rekuti mutoro— “kugona-kupindura”—kugona kusarudza mhinduro yako. Vanhu vanoshingaira vanoziva mutoro iwoyo.

Panharaunda nepakati penyika, nyika dzinogona kusarudza maitiro ekuita kune zviitiko zvepasi. Vanogona kutarisa kune zvibvumirano zvitsva, kuyananisira, kuchengetedzwa kwevanhu vasina pfuti, International Court of Justice, International Criminal Court, yakagadziridzwa UN General Assembly senzira dzekutsvaga mhinduro dzegakava.

Habit 2: "Tanga nemagumo mupfungwa". Chii chinonzi munhu, nzanga, chiono chenyika cheramangwana—chirevo chechinangwa?

KuUS, chirevo chemishoni ndicho Nhanganyaya kuBumbiro reMitemo: "ISU VANHU WEUNITED STATES, Kuitira kuumba Mubatanidzwa wakakwana, kumisa Ruramisiro, kuvimbisa Kugadzikana kwemumba, kupa dziviriro yakafanana, kusimudzira Hutano, uye kuchengetedza Makomborero eRusununguko kwatiri isu nezvizvarwa zvedu, gadza uye gadza Bumbiro iri reUnited States. weAmerica.”

KuUN, chirevo chemishoni ndiyo Nhanganyaya kuChata: “ISU VANHU VEKUBUDZWA KWENYIKA TAKASARUDZA kuponesa zvizvarwa zvinotevera kubva mudenda rehondo iro kaviri muupenyu hwedu rakaunza kusuwa kusingatauriki kuvanhu, uye kusimbisazve kutenda mukodzero dzevanhu dzinokosha, mukuremekedzwa nokukosha kwomunhu, mukodzero dzakaenzana dzevarume nevakadzi uye dzekodzero dzevanhu. nyika huru nediki, uye kumisa mamiriro ezvinhu umo kururamisira nekuremekedza zvisungo zvinobva muzvibvumirano uye mamwe manyuko emutemo wenyika dzakawanda zvinogona kuchengetedzwa, uye kukurudzira kufambira mberi kwevanhu uye mararamiro ari nani murusununguko rukuru,

UYE NEKUPERA IYI kuita kushivirira uye kugara pamwe chete murunyararo sevavakidzani vakanaka, uye kubatanidza simba redu kuchengetedza rugare rwepasi rose nechengeteko, uye kuve nechokwadi, nekugamuchirwa kwemisimboti uye kugadzwa kwenzira, kuti mauto akashonga haazoshandiswi; kuchengetedza maererano nechido chakafanana, uye kushandisa michina yepasi rose yekusimudzira budiriro yeupfumi nemagariro evanhu vose,

Saka, iyo US iri kuzadzisa chirevo chayo chechinangwa? Zvakadini neChibatanwa chaMarudzi nenyika dziri mitezo yacho? Tine nzira refu yekuenda kana tichida nyika "inoshanda".

Habit 3: "Isa zvinhu zvekutanga pekutanga". Covey anotaura nezvazvo zvakakosha maringe nezvinoda kukurumidza kuitwa.

Chinonyanya kukosha chinofanira kunge chiri kurongeka kunotevera:

• Quadrant I. Inokurumidza uye yakakosha (Ita)
• Quadrant II. Haisi yekukurumidzira asi yakakosha (Chirongwa)
• Quadrant III. Nechimbichimbi asi zvisina kukosha (Delegate)
• Quadrant IV. Hazvina kukurumidza uye hazvina kukosha (Kubvisa)

Kurongeka kwakakosha. Ndedzipi nyaya dzekukurumidzira uye dzakakosha dzakatarisana nenyika? Kuchinja kwemamiriro ekunze pasi rose? Zvinetso zvevapoteri uye zvekutama? Kufa nenzara? Nuclear nezvimwe zvombo zvekuparadza kukuru? Global dendamics? Zvirango zvinoiswa nevane simba pane vamwe? Mari yakakurisa yakashandiswa muhondo uye kugadzirira hondo? Vanonyanyisa?

Vanhu venyika vaizosarudza sei? Zvakadini neUN General Assembly, pasina kutyisidzira kweveto kubva kuSecurity Council?

Kudyidzana. Miitiro mitatu inotevera inogadzirisa kudyidzana- kushanda nevamwe. Fungidzira nyika umo vanhu vose vanoziva kudyidzana kwavo. Taizogadzirisa sei zvirwere, kushanduka kwemamiriro ekunze pasi rose, nzara, njodzi dzinongoitika dzoga, kurwisana, uye mhirizhonga? Funga ne "kuwanda mafungiro." Tinogona here kushanda pamwe chete kuti vanhu vararame?

Habit 4: "Funga kuhwina-kuhwina". Tsvaka zvinobatsirana, win-win mhinduro kana zvibvumirano. Kukoshesa uye kuremekedza vamwe nekutsvaga “kuhwina” kune vese kuri nani pane kana mumwe achikunda uye mumwe achikundwa.

Funga nezvenyika yedu nhasi. Isu tinotsvaga kukunda-kuhwina, kana isu tinofunga kuti tinofanira kuhwina chero muripo? Pane nzira yekuti mativi ose akunde here?

Habit 5: “Tsvaka kutanga kunzwisisa, ipapo kuzonzwisisa”, Shandisa kunzwira tsitsi kuteerera zvapachokwadi kunzwisisa imwe nzvimbo. Kuteerera kwokunzwira tsitsi ikoko kunoshanda kumativi ose. Vanhu vose nemarudzi ose vanofanira kutsvaka kunzwisisa kuti vavengi vavo vanoda chii. Fungidzira kana kutsvaga kutanga kunzwisisa kungave tsika. Kunzwisisa hazvirevi kubvumirana.

Kusawirirana uye kukakavara zvinogara zvichiitika. Zvisinei, hondo uye kuurayana kwevanhu vakawanda zvichava zvishoma kana vanhu vakanyatsonzwisisana.

Habit 6: "Synergize". Synergy zvinoreva kuti yose yakakura kudarika nhamba yezvikamu zvayo. Fungidzira zvingaitwa nenzanga nenyika pavanenge vachitsvaka hukama hunokunda kukunda, vachitsvaka kunzwisisana, uye kushanda pamwe chete kuti vawane zvinangwa zvavasingagoni kuita vari voga!

Habit 7: “Rodza saha”. Sezvinongoita munhu mumwe nemumwe anofanirwa kuchengetedza maturusi avo, saka nyika dzinofanirwa kuongorora nekukwenenzvera hunyanzvi uye maturusi anodiwa kuti ashande. Zvishandiso zvehondo nechisimba hazvina kuunza rugare. Mamwe maturusi aripo uye akagadzirira kuti isu tishandise.

“Rugare rwenyika kuburikidza nenzira dzisina mhirizhonga haruna upenzi kana kuti haruwanikwi. Dzimwe nzira dzese dzakundikana. Nokudaro, tinofanira kutanga patsva. Kusaita mhirizhonga inzvimbo yakanaka yekutanga. " Dr. Martin Luther King, Mwana.

Ndirini patichatora nzira itsva yekufunga? Tinofanira kutsiva tsika dzedu dzekuparadza nharaunda, hondo, mauto, uye mhirizhonga nemaitiro matsva. Dr. King akatiudzawo kuti rudzi rwomunhu runofanira kugumisa hondo, kana kuti hondo ichagumisa rudzi rwomunhu.