Vanamai Ndasangana

Vanaamai vanopfuura zana vakandibata kwemakore, vachitya hukama hwaiva nevana vavo vachiri kuyaruka nevanotsvaga mauto kuchikoro. Vaida kuziva zvavaigona kuita nezvazvo. Vakatsamwa, uye vainetseka.

Kusvika kwakaita vakadzi ava kwandiri nevamwe varwiri vehondo kunoratidza kutya kwavakaita. Vaitya kuti vana vavo vasina dziviriro vaizopinda muchiuto vasingadi. Vaitya kuti mwana wavo aizourayiwa ivo vakamira. Izvi ndizvo zvakavakurudzira kuramba kwavo.

Vanaamai vakati wandei vakandiudza kuti vaigumbuka zvikuru nekuvapo kwevanotsvaga vashandi vechiuto kuchikoro chevana vavo uye vakatsanangura simba raiitwa nevanotsvaga vashandi vechiuto pamafungiro nemaitiro evana vavo. Vakataura nezvehukama hwakaoma hwavaiva nahwo nevana vavo. Vamwe vakati vana vavo vakanga vava nehukama hwepedyo nevanotsvaga vashandi kuchikoro kwemakore anopfuura maviri. Vanaamai ava vaiva nechokwadi chekuti vanakomana vavo vaizonyoresa nekuti vakomana vavo vaiziva kurwadziwa kwaizokonzera vanaamai vavo.

MuAmerica, vashoma chete ndivo vanoda kuzvidzwa neveruzhinji nekuda kwekupikisa kwavo mauto eUS kana hondo. Zvisinei, vazhinji vemadzimai aya vaive nehasha, sekunge mhuka dzakavharirwa dzichidzivirira vana vavo.  

Vakadzi ava vakatsoropodza mukana wekusaenzana kwepfungwa waive nevanotsvaga mabasa pamusoro pevana vavo uye kushaya rutsigiro kwavakasangana nako mushure mekutarisana nevatungamiriri vechikoro. Vainetseka uye vainetseka nezvekuita mafungu uye vamwe vakatsanangura manzwiro ekutya anokonzerwa nekugumbuka kwavakasangana nako munharaunda dzavo nekuda kwekushora kwavo mauto. Vakaita izvi nekuda kwerudo kuvana vavo.

Kuroorana kwevanhurume nevanhukadzi kunobatsira mukutsvagwa kwevanhu mabasa munyika yese. Vanababa havawanzo batanidzwa mukuramba mauto muzvikoro zvepamusoro. Vanaamai ndivo vanonzi vanaamai. Panguva iyi, vanaamai havasati vambonditaurira vachitya kuti vanasikana vavo vangangopinda basa.

Zvichida chinonyanya kutyisa ndechekuti vanaamai vazhinji vakati vana vavo vaisakwanisa kuita sarudzo yakakura kudaro vachiri vadiki kudaro. Hazvishamisi. Sangano reAmerican Public Health Association APHA inoti pane humbowo hwakakosha hwekuti pfungwa dzevechiri kuyaruka hadzina kugadzirira kuverenga njodzi dzakarurama maererano nekunyoreswa muchiuto.

APHA inoratidza mukana mukuru wekuti masoja madiki achasangana nenjodzi dzakakura dzehutano hwepfungwa, dzinosanganisira kushushikana, kushandisa zvinodhaka zvisina kunaka, kuzvidya mwoyo, kuora mwoyo, chirwere chekushushikana mushure mekutambudzika, uye kuzviuraya. APHA inoti vanyori vemabasa vanoita zvechisimba vachiedza kuwana chivimbo nekuvimbana kwemwana. Vashandi vemabasa vane hunhu hwakanaka zvikuru asi vachikundikana kutevedzera miganhu yakajeka.

Madzimai ava vanorwa zvakasimba. Dzimwe nguva vanokwanisa kudzivirira vana vavo kuti vasanyoreswe; dzimwe nguva havakwanisi. Dzimwe nguva vanobatsira zvikuru mukumanikidza zvikoro kuti zvichinje mitemo yavo maererano nezvinodiwa nevanotsvaga vashandi kuvadzidzi vari pakoreji. Dzimwe nguva vanokwanisa kuderedza kufamba kwemashoko kubva kuchikoro chavo kuenda kuvakuru vevanotsvaga vashandi.

Vamwe amai vekuMidwest vakandiudza nezvekusagutsikana kwavo kukuru pamusoro penzira iyo vashandi vekutsvaga vashandi vaishamwaridzana nemwanakomana wavo kuchikoro. Vakati vashandi vekutsvaga vashandi vaiva nesimba guru pachikoro.

(Shure kwezvose, Peji 2 yeBhuku reVanotsvaga Vashandi inoda kuti "chikoro chive muridzi wacho.")

Mwanakomana wake akanyoresa basa rake achipesana nezvaaida. Makore maviri gare gare akaurayiwa muAfghanistan. Akandifonera mazuva mashoma mushure memashoko anorwadza aya. Akabvuma kuti mariro emwanakomana wake atorerwe mifananidzo paArlington National Cemetery nesangano renhau repasi rose rakashuma nezvekuramba kwake kunyoresa chikoro. Akati aifanira kuzviita. Dambudziko rake rakazoitika.

Vamwe amai vanobva kuMexico kunze kweDenver, avo vakatsanangura kurera mwanakomana wavo wechidiki asina baba, vakatsanangura kushamwaridzana kwemwanakomana wavo nemurume aitsvaga vashandi vechiuto anobva kuMexico waaiona mazuva ese kuchikoro. Vaviri ava vakapedza maawa vachitamba basketball vari vega uye mwana wavo akazopedzisira anyoresa. Mushandi wemauto uyu akazova "Semunhu anofanirwa kunge ari baba."

Ndakagamuchira runhare kubva kuna amai vekuColorado. Vadzidzi vakati wandei kuchikoro, kusanganisira mwanakomana wavo, vakataura kuti vakanzwa mumwe wevanotsvaga vashandi vemauto achitaura nezveboka diki revadzidzi se "f*ing fagots" paaipa ASVAB ku500 panguva yechikoro chegore negore chekuyedzwa kwemauto. Mheremhere yakabuda, yakazoonekwa mupepanhau remunharaunda, yakatarisana nekutuka vanhu vanoshora ngochani, asi haina kuteerera kumanikidzwa kwe500 kuongororwa. Mumwe wevadzidzi akanzwa mashoko aya akati vadzidzi vakati wandei vakanga vasingafarire kumanikidzwa kunyora bvunzo vakasarudzwa nevanotsvaga vashandi. "Masoja akatituka nekuda kwechitarisiko chedu," akadaro mumwe wevadzidzi vepachikoro.

Amai vakasuruvara vekuNorth Carolina vakafona vachindiudza kuti mwanakomana wavo nevamwe vaviri vakaramba kunyora bvunzo yeASVAB yaidiwa kuchikoro uye vakaendeswa kukamuri rekuvharirwa kwezuva iroro. Pepanhau remunharaunda rakabvuma kunyora nyaya, richitsigira kusimbirira kwechikoro kuti vadzidzi vese vanyore bvunzo yekunyoresa muchiuto. Mukati mayo, mukuru wechikoro akatsanangura kuti, "Handina mwoyo murefu nevanhu vari kuramba kunyora bvunzo - kana kuramba chero chinhu chiri kutora chikamu mugiredhi ravo rese."

Amai vane mwana wechikoro chesekondari muGeorgia vakatsanangura mu email kuti mukuru wechikoro chemwanakomana wavo akati ASVAB yairayirwa nemutemo wenyika. Vaiongorora kuti vaone kana izvi zvaive zvechokwadi. Hazvisi zvechokwadi.

Vachinyora pasocial media uye vachiparadzira mapepa pazuva rebvunzo, vaviri vechikoro chesekondari vane makore gumi nemanomwe vasina kudomwa mazita vakanyengetedza hafu yekirasi yevana kuti varambe kunyora bvunzo. Vadzidzi vakati wandei vakanyora bvunzo vakazadza ruzivo rwakanga rusina kururama.  

Amai vekuFlorida, Toria Latnie vakandiudza kuti mumwe mupi wezano pachikoro chesekondari chemwanakomana wavo kuFlorida akanyevera vadzidzi vekupedzisira kuti bvunzo yekunyoresa muchiuto yaidiwa kuti munhu apedzise kudzidza. Latnie akatsvaga nyaya iyi ndokuramba kuti mwanakomana wake anyore bvunzo yacho. Latnie akanga asingatyi. USA Today akashuma achiti, "Ndakatsamwa, ndakatsamwa zvikuru. Ndakanzwa sekuti ndanyeperwa, ndanyengerwa, sekunge vanhu vari kuedza kundivhima vopa ruzivo rwemwana wangu kumauto."

Amai vekuOregon vakatumira email vachibvunza kana zvainge "zviri pamutemo" kuti mwanakomana wavo anyoreswe bvunzo yekunyoresa muchiuto mangwana acho kuchikoro. Ndakatsanangura kuti basa remauto raive pachena. Pamwe zvaive mukati memutemo, munyika isina mutemo, ndakatsanangura. Varindi vekutsvaga vanhu vanoti havadi kuti vana vanyore ASVAB. Pane kudaro, mauto anoti achashanda pamwe nevakuru vechikoro vanoda kuti vadzidzi vanyore.  

Zvinoenderana nemitemo yemauto, Kana chikoro chichida kuti vadzidzi vese vane giredhi rimwe chete vaedze bvunzo, DOD "ichazvitsigira." Ona Mutemo weDOD weKutenga Vashandi 3.1.e. Vana muzvikoro chiuru vanomanikidzwa kunyora bvunzo dzekunyoresa muchiuto.

Zuva rakatevera, mwanakomana wake nemumwe mukomana vakasarudza mhinduro zvisina tsarukano, zvikaita kuti vakomana vaviri ava vabviswe nemukuru weSajeni pachikoro. Amai ava, sevamwe vazhinji, vakakurudzira nekukurudzira kuramba kwemwanakomana wavo.

Vamwe amai vari kuMidwest vakanyatsoongorora nyaya yekumanikidzwa kwekuedzwa muchiuto kwemwedzi yakati wandei. Maemail zana aitumirwa achienderera mberi nemazana ezviuru emashoko achichinjana uye achidyiwa. Zuva rekumanikidzwa kwekuedzwa muchiuto parakasvika, mwanakomana wavo akaronga "Zuva reKusvetuka Kwevakuru" rakakwanisa kudzivirira hafu yevadzidzi vekupedzisira vechikoro kuti vasanyore bvunzo.  

Vamwe amai vekuMaryland, avo vaishandawo semupi wezano pachikoro chesekondari chaidzidza mwanakomana wavo, vakanditumira fomu repamutemo rakagadzirwa neboka revanotsvaga vashandi vemunharaunda iro rakaita kuti mhinduro dzese dzebvunzo dzeASVAB dzitumirwe kune vanotsvaga vashandi vasina kupa chikoro mukana wekuvanza ruzivo rwacho.  

Ndakataura naamai vekuMinneapolis vakanga vakasuruvara, vakatumira email vachiti mwana wavo aishamwaridzana nemumwe munhu aitsvaga vashandi kuchikoro uyo aipedzawo nguva kuApplebee's uko mwanakomana wavo aishanda nguva shoma.  

Vamwe amai vekuWashington, DC vakataurirana vachiti mwanakomana wavo akapinda muchirongwa cheJROTC kuchikoro paakatanga kupinda chikoro chehurumende cheDC mugore ra9.th giredhi. "Handidi kuti atore pfuti idzodzo," akadaro. Akamuburitsa.

Ndakambosangana navanaamai gumi nevaviri vaifunga kuti vakanga vatokundwa. Mwana wavo paakangosvitsa makore gumi nemasere, vashandi vekutsvaga vashandi vakavati vasaine chibvumirano chebasa. Gwaro reDD 4 rekunyoreswa kwemauto/kunyoreswazveIzvi zvakaisa vana vavo muDelayed Entry Program, (DEP). DEP inobvumira vadzidzi vechikoro chesekondari kuti vanyorese kupinda muchiuto zuva ravanenge vatumirwa kunodzidziswa zvekutanga risati rasvika. Vanaamai vaida kuziva kana mwana wavo aigona kubuda muDEP.  

Madzimai muTexas, Kentucky, neArkansas vane vana vari muDEP vakati vashandi vekutsvaga vashandi vakaudza vanakomana vavo kuti vaizosungwa kana vakasaenda kuzvidzidzo zvekutanga. Mumwe mushandi wekutsvaga vashandi akati kusaenda kunoshanda kwaizoreva kugara mujeri. Vamwe amai muOhio vakati mushandi wekutsvaga vashandi akatumira mameseji ekutyisidzira mwanakomana wavo paakati haachadi kupinda muDEP. Madzimai ese aya haana kutenda pandakatsanangura kuti nzira iri nyore yekubuda muDEP ndeye kusaita chinhuNdakatsanangura kuti hazvidikanwi kuti mushandi wechidiki azivise mauto kuti haachadi kuva nhengo yemauto. Kuramba kuenda kumusasa wekudzidzira zvinoreva kuti dambudziko guru rapera.

Kunyoresa mauto eAmerica, kunyanya muzvikoro zvepamusoro zvehurumende, chinhu chinosemesa, chepfungwa chinosanganisa masoja akasarudzwa zvakanaka akadzidziswa pfungwa dzekunyora mauto nevana vasina dziviriro. Ipfungwa yakaipa yeruzhinji, uye yasvika nguva yekuigumisa.