Bwanji Ngati Zizolowezi Zisanu ndi Ziwiri za Anthu Opambana Kwambiri Zikagwiritsidwa Ntchito kwa Mitundu?

Wolemba Al Mytty, Mtendere wa Nyama, January 31, 2022

Buku logulitsidwa kwambiri, Zizolowezi 7 za Anthu Ochita Bwino Kwambiri—Maphunziro Amphamvu pa Kusintha kwa Munthu ndi Stephen R. Covey linatulutsidwa mu 1989. Mu August 2011, Time magazini olembedwa Zotsatira za 7 monga imodzi mwa "Mabuku 25 Otsogola Kwambiri Otsogolera Mabizinesi".

Pamene ndinawerenga bukhuli koyamba mu 1991, ndinali wotanganidwa mu ntchito yanga yaukatswiri kuyesa kulinganiza ntchito, moyo, banja, ubale wamabizinesi, zoyambitsa mdera, ndi moyo wanga wauzimu. Mtendere waumwini, mtendere wa ubale, ndi mtendere wapadziko lonse sizinali m'maganizo mwanga, makhalidwe, ndi zochita.

Ndinaonera nkhani pawailesi yakanema ndipo ndinakhulupirira kuti nkhondo ya ku Gulf ya US inali nkhondo yolungama yotetezera anthu a Kuwait ndi kukakamiza Iraq kuchoka ku Kuwait. Pamene Soviet Union inatha, ndinasangalala. Ndinkaganiza kuti demokalase yapambana. A US anali atapambana Cold War. Achimereka anali anyamata abwino, kapena ndinaganiza mopusa.

Sindinalabadira pang'ono zachinyengo cha Iran-Contra pomwe US ​​idagulitsa zida ku Iran mosaloledwa ndikugwiritsa ntchito phindu lazogulitsazo kuti zithandizire Contras ku Nicaragua. Sindinkadziwa pang'ono za maphunziro a US opha anthu, komanso kupha anthu ku Central America.

Mayiko a ku Balkan anali kundisokoneza. Sindinanyalanyaze kukula kwa NATO, kuyika zida kufupi ndi Russia, mabwalo ankhondo aku US ndi makhazikitsidwe amwazikana padziko lonse lapansi, ndipo chiwopsezo cha US chinali kukhazikika kwadziko.

Kwa zaka zambiri, chidwi changa pa mfundo za mayiko a ku United States chinakula. Ndazindikira kuti mfundo za US zimayang'ana kwambiri zankhondo ndi mphamvu, pomwe "tikuteteza zofuna za dziko lathu." Kukonda kwathu kunkhondo, zankhondo, zankhondo, ziwembu za CIA, ndi zigawenga, ndi njira zomwe timadzinenera kuti timathandizira ufulu, demokalase, ndi ulamuliro wamalamulo padziko lonse lapansi.

Tsopano ndinapuma pantchito ndikupereka nthawi ndi mphamvu zanga monga wolimbikitsa mtendere, ndinawerenganso Zotsatira za 7. Ndimadzifunsa kuti, “Ngati zizolowezizi zipangitsa anthu kukhala ochita bwino, komanso mabungwe ochita bwino, sangapangirenso madera abwino komanso mayiko? Zitha izi Zotsatira za 7 kukhala mbali ya dongosolo la dziko lamtendere?”

Zofunika ku Zotsatira za 7 ndi kuchuluka maganizo, njira yoganizira kuti pali zinthu zokwanira kwa anthu onse. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, a kusowa mindset, zero-sum game kuganiza, zimakhazikitsidwa pa lingaliro lakuti ngati wina apambana, wina ayenera kutaya.

Covey akufotokoza zizolowezi zomwe anthu amafunikira kuti asamuke kuchoka ku kudalira kupita ku ufulu wodziyimira pawokha ndikupita patsogolo mpaka kudalirana. Mofananamo, madera ndi mayiko, akhoza kuchoka pa kudalira kupita ku ufulu wodziimira kupita ku kudalirana. Komabe, ufulu (dziko langa choyamba) popanda kupita patsogolo mpaka kudalirana ... kumabweretsa maubwenzi otsutsana, mpikisano, ndi nkhondo.

Titha kuvomereza ndi kuvomereza kudalirana kwathu ndikukhala ndi malingaliro ochuluka, tikukhulupirira kuti pali chakudya chokwanira, madzi, malo, mpweya, mphamvu zongowonjezwdwa, chisamaliro chaumoyo, chitetezo, ndi zinthu zina kwa onse. Ndiye anthu onse akhoza kuchita bwino osati kungokhala ndi moyo.

Mliri wapadziko lonse lapansi wakhala mwayi wowonetsa kudalirana kwathu. Kuchepetsa kusintha kwa nyengo padziko lonse ndi chinanso. Kuzembetsa anthu. Malonda a mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Mavuto a anthu othawa kwawo. Kuphwanya ufulu wa anthu. Zida za nyukiliya. Demilitarizing malo. Mndandanda ukupitirira. Chomvetsa chisoni n’chakuti, timawononga mipata yochitira zinthu mogwira mtima ndi kuvomereza kudalirana, ndipo dziko likumira m’mikangano yachiwawa ndi nkhondo.

Tiyeni tiwone momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito Covey's Zotsatira za 7 pa mafuko, chikhalidwe, ndi mayiko akhoza kugwira ntchito ndi kuchuluka kwa malingaliro m'malo mongoganiza zamasewera.

Chizolowezi 1: Khalani Okhazikika. Kuchita bwino akutenga udindo pa zomwe munthu akuchita pazochitika ndikuyamba kuchitapo kanthu kuti ayankhe bwino. Khalidwe lathu ndi ntchito ya zisankho zathu, osati mikhalidwe yathu. Tili ndi udindo wopanga zinthu. Yang'anani mawu oti udindo - "kuyankha - kuthekera" - kuthekera kosankha yankho lanu. Anthu achangu amazindikira udindowo.

Pankhani ya chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi mayiko, mayiko akhoza kusankha momwe angayankhire zochitika zapadziko lapansi. Atha kuyang'ana mapangano atsopano, mkhalapakati, chitetezo cha anthu opanda zida, Khothi Lalikulu Ladziko Lonse, Khothi Lalikulu Lapadziko Lonse, bungwe la UN General Assembly losinthidwa monga njira zopezera njira zothetsera mikangano.

Chizolowezi 2: "Yambani ndi mapeto mu malingaliro". Kodi masomphenya a munthu, chikhalidwe cha anthu, dziko la mtsogolo ndi chiyani?

Kwa US, mawu amishoni ndi Preamble to the Constitution: "IFE ANTHU A KU UNITED STATES, Kuti apange Mgwirizano wangwiro, kukhazikitsa Chilungamo, kutsimikizira bata la m'banja, kupereka chitetezo cha anthu onse, kulimbikitsa Ufulu Wachibadwidwe, ndi kuteteza Madalitso a Ufulu kwa ife ndi mbadwa zathu, khazikitsani ndikukhazikitsa Constitution iyi ku United States. waku America.”

Kwa UN, mawu a mission ndi Preamble to Charter: "IFE ANTHU A UNITED NATIONS TINASINTHA kupulumutsa mibadwo yotsatira ku mliri wankhondo umene kaŵiri m’moyo wathu wabweretsa chisoni chosaneneka kwa anthu, ndi kutsimikiziranso chikhulupiriro mu ufulu wachibadwidwe wa anthu, mu ulemu ndi kufunika kwa umunthu, muufulu wofanana wa amuna ndi akazi ndi wa ufulu wofanana wa anthu. maiko akuluakulu ndi ang'onoang'ono, ndikukhazikitsa mikhalidwe yomwe chilungamo ndi kulemekeza zomwe zimachokera ku mapangano ndi magwero ena a malamulo a mayiko akhoza kusungidwa, ndi kulimbikitsa kupita patsogolo kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi mikhalidwe yabwino ya moyo mu ufulu wokulirapo;

NDIPO KWA MAPETO AWA kuchita kulolerana ndi kukhala pamodzi mwamtendere wina ndi mzake monga anansi abwino, ndi kugwirizanitsa mphamvu zathu kusunga mtendere ndi chitetezo padziko lonse, ndi kuonetsetsa, mwa kuvomereza mfundo ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwa njira, kuti zida sizidzagwiritsidwa ntchito; kupulumutsa m’chiyanjano cha anthu onse, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito makina a mayiko popititsa patsogolo chitukuko cha anthu onse pa chuma ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu,

Ndiye, kodi US ikukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna? Nanga bwanji bungwe la United Nations ndi mayiko amene ali mamembala ake? Tili ndi njira yayitali yoti tipite ngati tikufuna dziko "logwira mtima".

Chizolowezi chachitatu: "Ikani zinthu zofunika patsogolo". Covey amakamba za chomwe chili chofunikira motsutsana ndi chofunikira.

Chofunika kwambiri chiyenera kukhala dongosolo ili:

• Quadrant I. Yachangu komanso yofunika (Chitani)
• Quadrant II. Osati mwachangu koma chofunikira (Ndondomeko)
• Quadrant III. Zachangu koma zosafunikira (Delegate)
• Quadrant IV. Osafulumira komanso osafunikira (Chotsani)

Dongosolo ndilofunika. Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zikufunika kuchitika mwachangu komanso zofunika kwambiri padziko lapansi? Kusintha kwanyengo padziko lonse? Mavuto othawa kwawo komanso kusamuka? Njala? Zida za nyukiliya ndi zida zina zowononga anthu ambiri? Mliri wapadziko lonse lapansi? Zolango zoperekedwa ndi amphamvu kwa ena? Ndalama zochulukira zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa zankhondo ndi kukonzekera nkhondo? Anthu ochita zinthu monyanyira?

Kodi anthu a m’dzikoli akanasankha bwanji? Nanga bwanji UN General Assembly, popanda kuwopseza veto kuchokera ku Security Council?

Kudalirana. Zizolowezi zitatu zotsatirazi zikukhudza kudalirana-kugwira ntchito ndi ena. Tangolingalirani za dziko limene anthu onse amazindikira kudalirana kwawo. Kodi tikanathana bwanji ndi miliri, kusintha kwa nyengo, njala, masoka achilengedwe, nkhondo, ndi ziwawa? Ganizirani ndi "maganizidwe ochuluka." Kodi tingagwire ntchito limodzi kuti anthu apulumuke?

Chizoloŵezi cha 4: "Ganizani kupambana-kupambana". Fufuzani zothandizana, win–win solutions kapena mapangano. Kulemekeza ndi kulemekeza ena mwa kufunafuna “kupambana” kwa onse kuli bwino kuposa ngati wina apambana ndipo winayo waluza.

Ganizilani za dziko lathu masiku ano. Kodi timafuna kupambana, kapena tikuganiza kuti tiyenera kupambana pamtengo uliwonse? Kodi pali njira yoti mbali zonse zipambane?

Chizoloŵezi Chachisanu: “Funafunani choyamba kumvetsa, ndiyeno mumvetsedwe”, Gwiritsani wachifundo kumvetsera moona mtima kumvetsa malo enawo. Kumvetsera mwachifundo kumeneko kumakhudza mbali zonse. Anthu onse ndi mitundu yonse ya anthu aziyesetsa kuzindikira zimene adani awo akufuna. Tangoganizani ngati kufunafuna choyamba kumvetsetsa kungakhale chizolowezi. Kumvetsetsa sikutanthauza mgwirizano.

Kusamvana ndi mikangano zidzachitika nthawi zonse. Komabe, nkhondo ndi kupha anthu ambiri sikudzakhala kosavuta ngati anthu amvetsetsanadi.

Chizolowezi 6: "Synergize". Synergy zikutanthauza kuti zonse ndi zazikulu kuposa kuchuluka kwa zigawo zake. Tangolingalirani zimene anthu ndi mayiko angachite akafuna maubwenzi opambana, kufunafuna kumvetsetsana, ndi kugwirira ntchito limodzi kukwaniritsa zolinga zimene sangachite okha!

Chizolowezi 7: "Nola macheka". Monga momwe anthu amafunikira kusamalira zida zawo, maiko amafunikiranso kuwunika ndikuwongolera maluso ndi zida zofunika kuti zikhale zogwira mtima. Zida zankhondo ndi chiwawa sizinabweretse mtendere. Zida zina zilipo ndipo zakonzeka kuti tigwiritse ntchito.

“Mtendere wapadziko lonse kudzera m’njira zopanda chiwawa suli wachabechabe kapena wosatheka kuupeza. Njira zina zonse zalephera. Chotero, tiyenera kuyamba mwatsopano. Kusachita zachiwawa ndiye poyambira bwino. ” Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Ndi liti pamene tidzayamba kukhala ndi maganizo atsopano? Tiyenera kusiya zizolowezi zathu zowononga chilengedwe, nkhondo, zankhondo, ndi chiwawa ndi zizolowezi zatsopano. Dr. King anatiuzanso kuti anthu ayenera kuthetsa nkhondo, apo ayi nkhondo idzathetsa anthu.