Tiyenera kukumbatira Zosagwirizana

Wolemba a Kathrin Winkler, Epulo 21, 2020

kuchokera Wolemba Mbiri

Kudzuka mu Halifax lero ndikudzuka ku chinthu china chatsopano.

Ndinali kuwona mosangalala ndikuwona Bre Breerer Mary Janet akuphika mkate wa butterscotch pomwe kupha anthu kumachitika kunja kwa khitchini yongoyang'ana. Panali wowombera m'malo akumidzi a m'chigawochi.

Chithunzi cha wamkulu wa RCMP wachichepere ndikuwoneka m'manja wa ana awiri, kutsogolera kalasi ya ana kuwonekera pazenera. Pang'onopang'ono momwe kuwomberaku kumafalikira ngati magazi aanthu omwe akhudzidwa, ndikutaya kuzindikira kwathu.

Kodi tingadziwe bwanji zomwe zikuchitika? Kodi tingaike bwanji chiwawa chopanda nzeru ichi pambali pa osamala otizungulira mwachifundo? Kodi chinali chochitika china chachiwerewere? Kodi tikuwonekeranso mliri wina wosasintha padzikoli? Kodi chinali chinthu chinanso chachiyero chachikulu? Ndani akupanga katemera wotsutsana ndi chiwawa chopitilira muyeso wachikondwerero, ndikupitilira kuponderezana kupha anthu ambiri?

Mafunso athu atha kuwoneka osiyana, koma funso, tiyenera. Tsikuli likupitilira ndipo mabanja akulira, kusaka atolankhani, andale akuyankha ndipo madera akuda nkhawa, mwachita chiyani? Ndinadzimva wotayika, koma pomalizira pake ndinakhala wotanganidwa. Ndidaphonya gawo langa loyamba kukachita maphunziro apaintaneti operekedwa ndi World Beyond War. Funso lomwe ndimayenera kuyankha linali: "Ndi zifukwa ziti zomwe mukuwona kuti ndizokakamira kukana kuchita zachiwawa ngati njira ina yopewera chiwawa?"

Izi ndizomwe ndidalemba: Mtendere ndi chilungamo ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuti musatsutsidwe. Tiyeni tiyambire pomwe tili. Ndikufuna kuvomereza kuti ndikulemba kuchokera kumadera osagwirizana a makolo a Mi'kmaq omwe adakhazikika mu ubale wopitilira pakati pa mayiko mwamtendere komanso pachibwenzi.

Dzulo, kuno ku Nova Scotia, kuwombera kwakukulu kwambiri m'mbiri ya Canada kunachitika ndipo anthu osachepera 18 anamwalira mwankhanza. Mtsutso wanga wotsutsana ndi nonviolent umadziyimira wokha. Amayankhula chifukwa cha zida zomwe zimafunikira - mtima, mawu ndi chilankhulo. Zida zachiwawa sizimatsegulira malo awa. Ziwawa zimachepetsa kukambirana. Palibe malo okambirana kumapeto kwa mfuti kapena, pankhaniyo, kumapeto kwa cheke cha mumsewu. Kunyamula mfuti, bomba la nyukiliya, ndodo ya chipolowe, chilichonse chomwe chiri, kupitilira mphindi yakusintha. Palibe malo kukambirana, malingaliro achikazi ndi "mawu onse patebulo."

Kukana kwa nonviolent sikukutenga, kumapereka. Ziwawa zomwe zidaperekedwa pa mpira wapadziko lino lapansi zomwe zimakondweretsa, zimapereka moyo, zimatiphunzitsa ndikutisunga - kuti chiwawa chikuwopseza kuti tichotse, kufafaniza komanso kufafaniza maloto a ana athu.

Kusavomerezeka ndikubwezeretsanso komwe sikumatha polephera. Machitidwe achiwawa ndi ntchito zolephera. Apa, munthu yemwe adapha mwadzidzidzi anayambitsa chisoni ndi chisokonezo pamalo osamalira bwino ophukira mdera lathu.

Kusagwirizana ndi zochitika m'malingaliro - chiwawa ndi kufotokozera komwe anthu angachepetse.

Kutsutsana ndi nonviolent kumangosintha, ndikupeza mitundu yatsopano yotsutsa. Guardian akuwonetsa momwe mliriwu ukutithandizira kukulitsa maguluwo pazinthu zambiri. Mitundu yatsopano yotsutsayi imakulitsa patsogolo zochita komanso kuchuluka kwa kulimbikitsa. Chiwawa ndi osankhika - atakhala mu maholo akuda a dziko lokhala ndi kukonda dziko lankhondo amakonzera chiwembu mphamvu - moona dongosolo lamphamvu la mizimu.

Kodi njira ina yosagwirizana ndi zosagwirizana ndi zoyipa ndi ziti? Kodi tikusankha chiyani ngati sitikukumbatira zachiwawa? Ichi ndiye chifungulo. Njira ina yodzakhala yopanda chilungamo komanso chilungamo imangokhala mumsasa wothawirako, ndekha komanso ozizira komanso wamantha. Njira ina yosagwiritsa ntchito njira zamtunduwu imamwalira m'misewu yamatauni yopanda ana ali ndi nkhope ya ana ake pamaso pake. Njira ina imasambira ndi mphamvu yomaliza ya dorsal fin mumadziwe oyatsira pambali pa migodi ya golide ndi mchenga wa phula.

Monga momwe a Gorbachev adalemba mwanzeru, "Nkhondo ndi yolephera", ndipo, monga kupha akazi ndi kuponderezana, imasunga ziwawa zomwe zikupitilizabe kukokomeza mphepo zopanda chiyembekezo.

Kathrin Winkler, Nova Scotia Voice of Women for Peace, amakhala ku Halifax.