Ndi Paul Chappell
Zomwe adalemba ndi Russ Faure-Brac 1 / 21 / 2013
- Bukuli limafotokoza chifukwa chomwe tikukhalira m'nthawi ya chiyembekezo chambiri m'mbiri ya anthu komanso chifukwa chake mtendere tili nawo. Kusintha Kwamtendere ndikufunsa zokambirana zankhondo komanso zopeka zake, ndikukweza malingaliro athu pamtundu wina. Zinsinsi zakuya zankhondo pomaliza zimatsegulidwa, kuphatikiza momwe angathetsere nkhondo.
Zigawo zotsatirazi ndi minofu yamtendere yomwe iyenera kukhazikitsidwa.
- KUKHALA
- Pali mitundu itatu yakukhulupirirana: Dzidalire wekha, khulupirira anthu ena ndikukhulupirira malingaliro ako (kudzipereka, kudzipereka, ntchito). Izi ndiye maziko a "chiyembekezo chenicheni."
- "Anthu wamba, osati azidindo, ndiwo masomphenya owala kwambiri komanso injini yeniyeni yopita patsogolo."
- Mawu opambana kwambiri a chiyembekezo ndi "zenizeni zenizeni."
- "Ngakhale kuti ndadzipatulira kutumikira America, dziko langa siliposa malire a dziko lathu."
- EMPATHY
- "Kumvera chisoni ndikoti timatha kuzindikira ndi kugwirizana ndi ena."
- Pogwira mawu a Gene Hoffman, woyambitsa wa Compassionate Listening Project, Sun Tzu, wolemba "The Art of War" ndi Gandhi:
“Mdani ndi munthu yemwe nkhani yake sitinamve. Sitingalimbane ndi adani athu pokhapokha titawadziwa. Tikamachita izi amasiya kukhala adani athu ndipo sitimawasintha kukhala mitembo, koma abwenzi. ”
- Lt. Col. Dave Grossman wochokera Kupha: "Anthu ali ndi chizoloŵezi chachibadwa chopha anthu ena."
- Mitundu itatu ya chiwonongeko mu Nkhondo: mtunda wamaganizo, wamakhalidwe kapena wamakina.
- Mitundu itatu ya chiwonongeko mu Kugwiritsa Ntchito: Industrial, Numerical and Bureaucratic distance.
- Tiyenera kuphunzira kukonda. Chikondi ndi luso komanso luso.
- Asilikali akuti "Gulu limodzi, nkhondo imodzi" imagwiranso ntchito kwa asilikali a mtendere.
- KUYANKHA
- Zomwe zimakhala zabwino nthawi zonse, popanda kusiyanitsa? Kuyamikira.
- Udindo ndikutchulidwa koyamika kwambiri.
- CHIKUMBUTSO
- Osati "Akanatani Gandhi?" Ndi "Kodi aliyense wa ife ayenera kuchita chiyani kuti atithandizire pazomwe zatizungulira?"
- Nzeru ndi imene imatilekanitsa ndi zinyama zina.
- Njira zitatu zogulitsa kuponderezana kwa anthu ambiri: zimayendera kusalinganizana, kudzikuza kwambiri, ndi zina zabodza.
- Zifukwa zinayi zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kuchita zachiwawa pakati pa anthu: kulungamitsidwa, zopanda njira zina, zotsatira (zopanda kanthu) ndi luso
- ZOKHUDZA
- Kuopa ndi kukwiyitsa kwambiri munthu, ndizosamveka kwambiri.
- Amagwiritsa ntchito mawu olimbitsa mtima a chiyembekezo ndi mphamvu koma osati chiwonongeko komanso chodetsa poyankhula za mavuto athu a dziko lonse lapansi.
- Phindu la maphunziro opanga: simukupita kukamenyana; mumamira mpaka pamaphunziro anu.
- Takhazikitsa mizukwa monga dongosolo lazachuma lomwe limayang'ana phindu kuposa anthu komanso malo azankhondo omwe amalimbikitsa mantha ndi ziwawa. Zomwe tapanga titha kuzisintha.
13. CHILANGO
- Chilango cha msilikali ndi kudziletsa, kuchepetsa kukondweretsa (anthu wamba ku WWII), ufulu wa mkati (kusinkhasinkha), kudziika pa chiopsezo pakuwona chisalungamo, kuzindikira mantha a imfa komanso chilakolako choletsa kugonana.
- Ankhondo ndi oteteza.
- CURIOSITY
- Philosophy inalimbitsa mtima wake wa chidwi.
- Kusintha kwamtendere ndikusintha kwamalingaliro, mtima ndi mzimu ndipo kumalimbikitsidwa ndi sayansi. Zidzakhala kusintha kosintha momwe timawonera nkhondo, mtendere, udindo wathu padziko lapansi, ubale wathu wina ndi mnzake komanso tanthauzo la kukhala munthu.
- Kusintha kwazidziwitso kwasintha kwambiri kumvetsetsa kwathu m'njira zambiri. M'malo mopasula nyumba momwe miyambo yathu imakhalira, kusintha kwamtendere kumangika pamaziko ake ndikumvetsetsa kwathu.
- Sikuti mumakhala wamkulu pamene mutha kusamalira nokha - ndi pamene mungathe kusamalira ena.
