Amayi Ndakumana nawo

Amayi oposa zana akhala akulankhula nane kwa zaka zambiri, akudabwa ndi ubale womwe ana awo achinyamata anali nawo ndi olemba asilikali kusukulu. Ankafuna kudziwa zomwe angachite pankhaniyi. Anali okwiya, ndipo anali ndi nkhawa.

Mfundo yakuti akazi awa anandifikira ine ndi ena omenyera ufulu wolemba anthu ntchito ikusonyeza kuti anali ndi mantha kwambiri. Ankaopa kuti ana awo osatetezeka angalembetse ntchito motsutsana ndi zomwe iwo ankafuna. Ankaopa kuti mwana wawo angaphedwe pamene iwo anali kuimirira. Ichi chinali chifukwa cha kukana kwawo.

Amayi angapo anandiuza kuti amadana kwambiri ndi kupezeka kwa olemba anthu ntchito za usilikali kusukulu ya ana awo ndipo anafotokoza momwe olemba anthu ntchito anali kukhudzira maganizo ndi khalidwe la ana awo. Analankhula za ubale wovuta umene anali nawo ndi ana awo. Ena anati ana awo akhala paubwenzi wapamtima ndi olemba anthu ntchito kusukulu kwa zaka zoposa ziwiri. Amayi amenewa anali otsimikiza kuti ana awo aamuna adzalembetsa chifukwa anyamata awo ankadziwa ululu umene ungabweretse kwa amayi awo.

Ku America, ochepa okha ndi omwe ali okonzeka kunyozedwa ndi anthu chifukwa chotsutsa asilikali aku US kapena nkhondo yonse. Komabe, amayi ambiri awa anali ankhanza, ngati nyama yotetezedwa m'makona kuti iteteze ana awo.  

Azimayi odziwika bwino awa adadzudzula mwayi wosayerekezeka womwe olemba anthu ntchito anali nawo pa ana awo komanso kusowa kwa chithandizo komwe adakumana nako atakumana ndi oyang'anira sukuluyo. Anali ndi nkhawa komanso nkhawa zokhudzana ndi kupanga mafunde ndipo ena adafotokoza malingaliro oopa omwe adabwera chifukwa cha mkwiyo womwe adakumana nawo m'madera awo chifukwa chotsutsa asilikali. Anachita izi chifukwa chokonda ana awo.

Kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi kumabweretsa vuto lalikulu m'dziko lonselo. Abambo nthawi zambiri salowerera nawo m'masukulu akusekondale pokana usilikali. Ndi amayi okha. Pakadali pano, amayi sanayambe andilankhulapo chifukwa choopa kuti ana awo aakazi angalembetse ntchito.

Mwina chodetsa nkhawa kwambiri n'chakuti, amayi ambiri anati ana awo sakanatha kupanga chisankho chachikulu chotere ali aang'ono chonchi. N'zosadabwitsa. Bungwe la American Public Health Association APHA akuti pali umboni wofunikira wakuti ubongo wa achinyamata suli wokonzeka kupanga mawerengedwe olondola a zoopsa zokhudzana ndi kulembetsa usilikali.

APHA ikusonyeza kuti asilikali achichepere kwambiri angakumane ndi mavuto aakulu okhudza thanzi la maganizo, kuphatikizapo kupsinjika maganizo, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, matenda a nkhawa, kuvutika maganizo, matenda ovutika maganizo pambuyo pa zoopsa, komanso kudzipha. APHA imati olemba anthu ntchito amachita zinthu zankhanza pofuna kupeza chidaliro ndi chidaliro cha mwana. Olemba anthu ntchito ndi okongola kwambiri koma amalephera kulemekeza malire omveka bwino.

Amayi amenewa amamenyana mwankhanza. Nthawi zina amatha kuletsa ana awo kuti asalembetsedwe; nthawi zina sangathe. Nthawi zina amathandiza kwambiri kukakamiza masukulu kusintha mfundo zawo zokhudzana ndi mwayi wopeza ophunzira omwe amalemba ntchito kusukulu. Nthawi zina amatha kuchepetsa kufalikira kwa chidziwitso kuchokera kusukulu yawo kupita ku gulu lolemba anthu ntchito.

Mayi wina ku Midwest anandilankhula za nkhawa zake zazikulu za momwe olemba anthu ntchito ankachitira ubwenzi ndi mwana wake kusukulu. Iye anati olemba anthu ntchito anali ndi ulamuliro waukulu pa sukuluyo.

(Izi zili choncho, Tsamba 2 la Buku la Olemba Ntchito imafuna "umwini wa sukulu.")

Mwana wake wamwamuna analembetsa ntchito yake motsutsana ndi zomwe iye ankafuna. Patatha zaka ziwiri anaphedwa ku Afghanistan. Anandiimbira foni patatha masiku angapo nkhani yomvetsa chisoni itamveka. Anavomereza kuti maliro a mwana wake ku Arlington National Cemetery ajambulidwe ndi bungwe lapadziko lonse lapansi la nkhani lomwe linanena za kukana kwake kulemba anthu ntchito kusukulu. Anati ayenera kuchita zimenezo. Maloto ake oipa anakwaniritsidwa.

Mayi wina wochokera ku Mexico kunja kwa Denver, yemwe anafotokoza za kulera mwana wake wachinyamata popanda bambo, anafotokoza mwamantha ubwenzi wapakati wa mwana wake ndi munthu wofuna kulemba anthu usilikali wochokera ku Mexico yemwe amamuwona pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kusukulu. Awiriwa anakhala maola ambiri akusewera basketball ndipo mwana wake pamapeto pake analembetsa. Wofuna kulemba anthu usilikaliyo anakhala “Ngati bambo.”

Ndinalandira foni ina kuchokera kwa mayi wina ku Colorado. Ophunzira angapo kusukulu, kuphatikizapo mwana wake wamwamuna, adanena kuti atamva wolemba anthu ntchito za usilikali akunena za gulu laling'ono la ophunzira kuti "akunyoza" pamene ankapereka ASVAB kwa 500 panthawi ya mayeso a usilikali a pachaka a sukulu. Chipolowe chomwe chinabwera chifukwa cha zimenezi, chomwe chinalembedwa m'nyuzipepala yakomweko, chinayang'ana kwambiri mawu onyoza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma sanasamale za mayeso okakamiza a 500. Mmodzi mwa ophunzira omwe anamva ndemangayo anati ophunzira angapo omwe sanasangalale ndi kukakamizidwa kulemba mayesowo anasankhidwa ndi olemba anthu ntchito. "Asilikali anatidzudzula chifukwa cha momwe timaonekera," anatero wophunzira wasukulu ya sekondale kusukuluyo.

Mayi wina wovutika maganizo wochokera ku North Carolina anandiimbira foni kundiuza kuti mwana wake wamwamuna ndi ena awiri anakana kulemba mayeso a ASVAB kusukulu ndipo anatumizidwa ku chipinda chosungiramo ana tsiku lomwelo. Nyuzipepala yakomweko inavomereza kulemba nkhani, nthawi zambiri ikuchirikiza mfundo ya sukulu yoti ophunzira onse alembe mayeso a usilikali. M'nkhaniyi, mkulu wa sukulu anafotokoza kuti, "Sindikhala woleza mtima kwambiri ndi anthu omwe akukana kulemba mayesowo - kapena kukana chilichonse chomwe giredi yawo yonse ikuchita nawo."

Mayi wina wa mwana wa sukulu ya sekondale ku Georgia anafotokoza mu imelo yomwe mphunzitsi wamkulu wa mwana wake anati ASVAB inali yolamulidwa ndi lamulo la boma. Iye anali kufufuza kuti aone ngati izi zinali zoona. Sizinali zoona.

Akulemba pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndikugawa mapepala pa tsiku la mayeso, ophunzira awiri okalamba azaka 17 omwe sanatchulidwe mayina adanyengerera theka la ophunzira a kalasi ya sekondale kuti akane kulemba mayesowo. Ophunzira angapo omwe adakhala nawo pa mayesowo adalemba mfundo zolakwika.  

Mayi wina ku Florida, Toria Latnie, anandiuza kuti mlangizi wa kusukulu ya sekondale ya mwana wake ku Florida anachenjeza ophunzira a chaka chatha kuti mayeso olembetsa usilikali ndi ofunikira kuti munthu amalize maphunziro ake. Latnie anafufuza nkhaniyi ndipo anakana kulola mwana wake kulemba mayesowo. Latnie anali wopanda mantha. USA Today Iye anati, “Ndinakwiya kwambiri. Ndinamva kunamizidwa, kunyengedwa, ngati kuti anthu akuyesera kundibisa ndikupatsa asilikali zachinsinsi za mwana wanga.”

Mayi wina wochokera ku Oregon anatumiza imelo kufunsa ngati zinali "zovomerezeka" kuti mwana wake ayenerere kulemba mayeso a usilikali tsiku lotsatira kusukulu. Ndinafotokoza kuti udindo wa usilikali unali womveka bwino. Mwina unali mkati mwa lamulo, m'dziko losamvera malamulo, ndinafotokoza. Gulu lolemba anthu ntchito limati silifuna kuti ana achite ASVAB. M'malo mwake, asilikali akuti adzagwirizana ndi akuluakulu a sukulu omwe amafuna kuti ophunzira achite.  

Malinga ndi malamulo a asilikali, Ngati sukulu ikufuna kuti ophunzira onse a giredi inayake ayese mayeso, DOD "idzathandizira." Onani Lamulo la DOD la Kugula Ogwira Ntchito 3.1.e. Ana m'masukulu chikwi chimodzi amakakamizidwa kulemba mayeso a usilikali.

Tsiku lotsatira, mwana wake wamwamuna ndi mnyamata wina anasankha mayankho mwachisawawa, zomwe zinapangitsa kuti anyamata awiriwa achotsedwe ndi 1st Sergeant yemwe anali mtsogoleri pasukulupo. Mayi uyu, monga ena ambiri, analimbikitsa ndikulimbikitsa mwana wake kuti asachite zimenezo.

Mayi wina ku Midwest anaphunzira mosamala nkhani yokhudza mayeso okakamiza asilikali kwa miyezi ingapo. Maimelo zana limodzi anatumizidwa ndi mawu ambirimbiri osinthana ndi kudyedwa. Tsiku loyesa asilikali litafika, mnyamata wake anakonza “Senior Skip Day” yomwe inathandiza kuti theka la ophunzira omaliza maphunziro a sekondale asalembe mayesowo.  

Mayi wina ku Maryland, yemwenso ankagwira ntchito ngati mlangizi wotsogolera kusukulu ya sekondale yomwe mwana wake ankaphunzira, ananditumizira fomu yovomerezeka yopangidwa ndi gulu lolemba anthu ntchito la m'deralo yomwe inapangitsa kuti zotsatira zonse za mayeso a ASVAB zitumizidwe kwa olemba anthu ntchito popanda kupatsa sukulu mwayi wobisa chidziwitsocho.  

Ndinalankhula ndi mayi wina wovutika maganizo wochokera ku Minneapolis amene ananditumizira imelo yonena kuti mwana wake anali bwenzi la munthu wolemba anthu ntchito kusukulu amenenso ankagwira ntchito ku Applebee komwe mwana wake ankagwira ntchito ya nthawi yochepa.  

Mayi wina ku Washington, DC adalumikizana nafe kuti mwana wawo wamwamuna adalowetsedwa mu pulogalamu ya JROTC kusukulu pomwe adayamba kupita kusukulu ya boma ya DC mu 9.th kalasi. “Sindikufuna kuti azigwira mfuti zimenezo,” anatero iye.

Ndakumanapo ndi amayi khumi ndi awiri omwe ankaganiza kuti alephera kale. Mwana wawo atangokwanitsa zaka 18, olemba anthu ntchito anawapempha kuti asaine chikalatacho. Chikalata cha DD 4 Cholembetsa/Kulembetsanso UsilikaliIzi zinaika ana awo mu Pulogalamu Yochedwa Kulowa, (DEP). DEP imalola omaliza sukulu ya sekondale kulembetsa usilikali tsiku lisanafike tsiku lomwe anatumizidwa kukaphunzira maphunziro oyambira. Amayi ankafuna kudziwa ngati mwana wawo angatuluke mu DEP.  

Amayi ku Texas, Kentucky, ndi Arkansas omwe ana awo anali mu DEP anati olemba anthu ntchito anauza ana awo aamuna kuti adzamangidwa ngati sadzapita ku maphunziro oyambira. Wolemba wina anati kusapita ku Ohio kungafunike kuikidwa m'ndende mokakamizidwa. Amayi ku Ohio anati wolemba anthu ntchitoyo anatumiza mauthenga oopseza pamene mwana wake anati sakufunanso kulembetsa. Amayi onsewa sanakhulupirire pamene ndinafotokoza kuti njira yosavuta yotulukira mu DEP ndi osachita chilichonse. Ndinafotokoza kuti sikofunikira kuti wachinyamata amene walembedwa ntchito yoti adziwitse asilikali kuti sakufunanso kukhala msilikali. Kukana kupita ku kampu yophunzitsira anthu kumatanthauza kuti mavuto onse atha.

Kulemba asilikali aku America, makamaka m'masukulu apamwamba aboma, ndi ntchito yonyansa komanso yamaganizo yomwe imaphatikiza asilikali osankhidwa mosamala omwe aphunzitsidwa zamaganizo okhudza kulemba asilikali motsutsana ndi ana omwe ali pachiwopsezo. Ndi mfundo zonyansa za boma, ndipo nthawi yakwana yoti zithetsedwe.