Ndi Michael N. Nagler, October 7, 2017, Peace Voice.
Ngakhale ndakhala ndikuphunzira zachiwawa - komanso ziwawa zosadziwika - kwazaka zambiri, zomwe ndikufuna kugawana nanu zavutoli laposachedwa ndichachidziwikire. Osati kuti mukukayikira, nayi yankho langa: munthuyu apha anthu anzawo chifukwa amakhala mu chikhalidwe chomwe chimatulutsa chiwawa. Chikhalidwe chomwe chimanyoza chithunzi cha munthu - awiriwa amapita limodzi. Ndingadziwe bwanji? Chifukwa ndimakhala mchikhalidwe chimodzimodzi; inunso mutero. Ndipo zovuta izi zitha kutiika pamayankho.
Palibe izi kapena zowonongeka, ndithudi kuphulika kwa chiwawa, kungathe kuwonetsedwa kuwonetsero wina wa TV kapena kanema wa kanema kapena filimu ya "action", ndithudi, yoposa mphepo yamtundu uliwonse ingathe kutsatiridwa ndi kutentha kwa dziko; koma pazochitika zonsezi, ziribe kanthu. Chofunika ndi chakuti tili ndi vuto loletsa - losatetezeka, koma lopewedwa - ndipo ngati tikufuna kuti ziwawazi ziwonongeke, tisaleke kutero.
Takhala, ndipo takhala zaka makumi angapo, tikugwira mawu mnzanga, "tikuchulukitsa nkhanza m'njira zonse zomwe tingathe" - makamaka, osati kokha, kudzera pazofalitsa zathu zamphamvu. Sayansi pa izi ndiyodabwitsa, koma chidziwitso chamtengo wapatali chimangokhala m'malo osungira mabuku ndi mashelufu a aprofesa; ngakhale opanga malamulo kapena anthu wamba —kapena, osafunikira kunena, opanga mapulogalamu atolankhani iwowo, sanawone kufunika koti azisamala. Ananyalanyaza kafukufukuyu mwakhama kwakuti kwina m'ma 1980s anzanga ambiri ogwira nawo ntchito adangosiya ndikusiya kusindikiza. Zikumveka bwino? Monga ndi umboni wochuluka wosonyeza kuti zochita za anthu zikuyambitsa kusintha kwa nyengo; sitimakonda umboni wochuluka wosonyeza kuti zithunzi zachiwawa (ndipo, titha kuwonjezera, mfuti zokha) zimalimbikitsa zachiwawa, chifukwa chake timayang'ana kutali.
Koma sitingayang'anenso kwina. Monga aku America, tili ndi mwayi wochulukirapo makumi awiri kuposa nzika zamayiko ena otukuka kufa ndi mfuti. Sitingayang'anenso kutali ndi zonsezi ndikudziyesa ngati dziko lotukuka.
Kotero ndikulimbikitsanso kuti atolankhani akutulutsa zida zambiri pa ife - ndi mfuti zingati, zida zochuluka bwanji, bwanji za chibwenzi chake - ndikudzinenera kuti akuyang'ana pachabe chifukwa cha "cholinga" chomwe timayimilira kamphindi bwerezani funsolo. Funso ndilo, osati chifukwa chake munthu uyu anachita chiwawa ichi mwa njirayi, koma nchiyani chomwe chikuchititsa mliri wa chiwawa?
Kutsitsimula uku ndikutonthoza kwakukulu, chifukwa kuikidwa m'manda kumakhala ndi zovuta ziwiri: nthawi zambiri funso silingayankhidwe, monga momwe zilili panopa, ndi zina ngakhale zingatheke mfundoyo ndi yopanda phindu. Palibe chimene tingachite pa chibwenzi chake kapena kutchova njuga, kapena kuti wothamanga X anali atathamangitsidwa kapena anali ndi vuto.
Pali chirichonse chomwe tingathe kuchita, ndi nthawi yokwanira ndi khama, pa chifukwa chomwe chimayambira onse kuwombera, komwe ndi chikhalidwe cha nkhanza zomwe zakhala zowonjezereka kwambiri ndi 'zosangalatsa' za 'zosangalatsa zathu,' zomwe timasankha mosadzidzimutsa ndi zomwe timapereka 'nkhani,' ndipo inde, ndondomeko yathu yachilendo, kutsekeredwa kwathu, kusamvana kwathu kwakukulu ndi kusokonezeka kwathunthu ya nkhani yaumwini.
Bulogu ina yaposachedwa idatipatsa mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito motere: "Chinthu chimodzi chomwe tikudziwa, chomwe timadziwa nthawi zonse za omwe amawombera anthu ambiri: Amagwiritsa ntchito mfuti." Apa, pomaliza, tikuganizira za chilengedwe chonse, za izi mtundu wa ziwawa osachepera, osangomira mwatsatanetsatane zomwe sizofunika kwenikweni komanso zovulaza - mwachitsanzo akatiyesa kuti tiwonetsenso zaumbanda mosasamala, tisangalale ndi chisangalalo, ndikusiya mantha. Zithunzi ndi zithunzi za chipinda cha hotelo chowomberachi zomwe zimaperekedwa ndi pepala limodzi zilidi mgululi.
Inde, tiyenera kulimbikira, mwamtheradi, kuti tijowine dziko lotukuka ndikukhazikitsa malamulo omenyera mfuti. Monga tanenera, sayansi ikuwonekeratu kuti mfuti wonjezani nkhanza komanso kuchepa chitetezo. Koma kodi izi zikhala zokwanira kuletsa kupha anthu? Ayi, ndikuwopa kuti ndichedwa kuti tichite izi. Tiyeneranso kusiya zachiwawa m'malingaliro mwathu. Izi sizidzangotipatsa ife malingaliro athanzi komanso kutipatsa mwayi wothandiza ena chimodzimodzi. Lamulo langa lamphamvu: tsatirani kwambiri pazofalitsa zomwe zikubwera m'maganizo mwathu, lemberani mawebusayiti kufotokoza chifukwa chake sitikuwonera mapulogalamu awo kapena kugula zinthu za otsatsa, ndikufotokozera chimodzimodzi kwa onse omwe akufuna kumvetsera. Ngati zingathandize, tengani chikole; Mutha kupeza zitsanzo pa webusaiti yathu.
Kutatsala pang'ono kuphedwa kwa Las Vegas ndinali m'sitima ndikubwerera kuchokera kumalembedwe pomwe ndidamva kukambirana pakati pa alendo awiri aku Danish, anyamata ovala jinzi mosamalitsa omwe amawoneka ngati ena mwa zaka zikwizikwi za mchiuno m'sitolo yanga ya khofi yomwe ndimakonda, kondakitala. M'modzi mwa anyamatawo ananena monyadira kuti, "Sititero amafunika mfuti ku Denmark. ” “O, ine sindimakhulupirira kuti,"Adayankha motero.
Kodi pangakhale china chomvetsa chisoni? Kukhala ndi chikhalidwe chomwe sitimakhulupiriranso kuti dziko lapansi moyo ndi wamtengo wapatali ndipo zachiwawa zimapeŵedwa, komwe tingapite kukonsati - kapena kupita kusukulu - ndikubwerera kunyumba. Yakwana nthawi yakumanganso chikhalidwe, ndi dziko lapansi.
Pulofesa Michael N. Nagler, wovomerezedwa ndi PeaceVoice, ndi Pulezidenti wa Metta Center for Nonviolence ndi mlembi wa Search for Nonviolent Future.
