Inde, ndikudziwa kuti mumakonda ana anu, monga inenso ndimakondera ana anga. Izi sizokayika. Koma iweyo umandikonda wanga ndi ine wako? Chifukwa palimodzi zikuwoneka kuti pali vuto. Ferguson mwina adadzutsa anthu ochepa ku njira zina zomwe gulu lathu limasankhira anthu aku Africa America - ngati "kusala" ndi mawu omwe atha kuphatikizira kupha. Koma tikalola kuphedwa kwa anthu akuda achichepere, kodi ndizotheka kuti anthu amenewo adanyanyala kawiri, kukhala akuda komanso achichepere?
Buku la Barry Spector Madzulo ku Mipata ya Mzinda ndi amodzi mwa magulu olemera kwambiri azidziwitso ndi zoyambitsa zomwe ndimazidziwa. Ndi buku lomwe limafufuza zanthano zakale ndi zikhalidwe zikhalidwe zakuchokerapo pachikhalidwe cha ogula, kudzipatula, kuponderezana pakugonana, kuwopa kufa, chidani ndi ziwonetsero, komanso kusalemekeza achinyamata ndi achikulire. Chimodzi mwazizolowezi zosokoneza za bukuli ndikudziwitsa m'moyo wapano kupitiliza kwa zomwe timaganiza ngati zachiwawa, kuphatikiza kupereka ana nsembe.
Gulf War inayambika pa nkhani zowonongeka za Iraqi kuchotsa makanda kuchokera ku makina osakaniza. Ana adatumizidwa kukalemba maofesi kuti aphe ndi kufa kuti athetse kupha ndikufa. Koma nkhondo si malo okhawo omwe amawonekera.
"Saloledwa kuperekera ana zathu zenizeni," akulemba - kupatula ngati kwapadera, ndikuganiza, Nthawi monga bambo yemwe adaponya kamtsikana kake pamlatho Lachinayi ku Florida - "timachita izi kudzera mukuzunza, batri, kunyalanyaza, kugwiririra komanso kusowa thandizo. Atsikana a zaka khumi ndi chimodzi kapena kupitilira apo amakhala makumi atatu mwa atatu aliwonse a anthu ogwiriridwa, ndipo achinyamata omwe amachitidwa zachipongwe amadziwa omwe amawachita mpaka makumi asanu ndi anayi mphambu atatu pa zana aliwonse a nthawiyo. Kotala la ana a ku America amakhala muumphawi; oposa miliyoni imodzi alibe nyumba. ”
Mutu waukulu wa buku la Spector ndi kusowa kwa miyambo yoyenera kwa anyamata achikhalidwe chathu. Amatiyitana anthu akuluakulu osadziwika. "Akufunsa," tingasinthe bwanji mahomoni okwiyawa kuchokera kuzinthu zotsutsana ndi chikhalidwe kukhala chinthu chabwino? Izi sizinganenedwe mwamphamvu kwambiri: amuna osadziwika amayambitsa mavuto padziko lonse lapansi. Mwina amawotcha ndi luso kapena amawotcha chilichonse. Izi zamoyo Nkhani imadutsa mikangano yokhudzana ndi kugonana pakati pa amai ndi amai. Ngakhale chikhalidwe cha patriarchal chimavomerezeka ndi kupitirizabe, awo chikhalidwe amayendetsa anyamata mopitirira muyeso. Miyambo ya miyambo imafotokoza fanizo ndi chizindikiro kuti anyamata asamachite zofuna zawo zamkati. ”
Koma pambuyo pake m'bukuli, Spector akuwoneka kuti akutanthauza kuti tidamvetsetsadi izi ndikukokomeza lingalirolo. "Akafunsidwa, akuluakulu amaganiza kuti achinyamata ndi omwe amachititsa milandu yachiwawa makumi anayi ndi itatu. Katswiri wa zachikhalidwe cha anthu Mike Males, komabe, akuti achinyamata amachita milandu yokwana XNUMX% yokha. Komabe pafupifupi theka la bomali limazenga mlandu ana azaka zazing'ono ngati khumi ngati kuti ndi achikulire, ndipo anthu oposa XNUMX pa XNUMX aliwonse amakonda kupha anyamata amene akupha ana. ”
Nthawi zina ife omvera ana atawapha, koma kodi amapindula nazo bwanji?
Kunena zowona, ma boomers aana amakhala ndi vuto lokonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso umbanda, ndipo ambiri amakhala oyera. Koma chilangocho, monganso amitundu yochepa, sichimaperekedwa moyenera. “Achichepere aku America nthawi zonse amalamulidwa kuti akhale m'ndende nthawi makumi asanu ndi limodzi peresenti kuposa achikulire pa milandu yomweyi. Akuluakulu akakhala kuti amachitiridwa zachipongwe, ziganizo zimakhala zolimba kuposa momwe amachitira anawo; ndipo makolo amene amazunza ana awo amalandira chilango chachifupi kusiyana ndi anthu osawadziwa. ”
Sikuti tonse pamodzi timavutikira ana kuposa achikulire, monganso akuda kuposa azungu, koma tikangoyang'ana milandu yokhudza ana, Spector akuti, timapeputsa ansembe kapena amuna okhaokha kapena amuna osakwatira, ndikuwononga "kusowa kwa ntchito, masukulu odzaza , kutha kwa mabanja kapena ziwawa zomwe zimachitika m'mabungwe. Tsopano ndizosatheka kuti amuna azigwira ntchito ali mwana; zimangokhala chimodzi mwa khumi ndi limodzi aphunzitsi oyambira. ”
Nchifukwa chiyani timalola dongosolo kuti lipitirize kusankhana kumeneku ana? Kodi ndife osazindikira, osokonezeka, osocheretsa, osazindikira, odzikonda? Spector akuwonetsa kuti tikunyamula mbiri yakale. “Pali umboni wochuluka wokhudza kuphedwa kwenikweni kwa ana apathengo (makamaka kumapeto kwa zaka za zana la khumi ndi chisanu ndi chinayi) ndi ana ovomerezeka, makamaka atsikana, ku Europe. Zotsatira zake, panali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa amuna ndi akazi mpaka ku Middle Ages. Nkhanza zakugonana komanso zachiwerewere zinali zofala kwambiri kotero kuti ana ambiri obadwa zaka za zana lachisanu ndi chitatu zisanachitike anali omwe masiku ano amatchedwa 'ana omenyedwa.' Komabe, matendawa sanawonekere kwa madokotala mpaka 1962, pomwe kugwiritsa ntchito ma x-ray kunawulula kuti ana aang'ono omwe anali aang'ono kwambiri osadandaula m'mawu amang'ambika. ”
Spector amanenanso kuti ena a 5,000 lynchings ku United States pakati pa 1880 ndi 1930, osachepera 40 peresenti anali miyambo ya nsembe yaumunthu, yomwe nthawi zambiri imakhazikitsidwa mosamala, nthawi zambiri ndi atsogoleri achipembedzo, makamaka Lamlungu, malo omwe asankhidwa pasadakhale ndikufalitsidwa m'manyuzipepala.
Agiriki ndi Aheberi adawona kupereka ana nsembe ngati gawo lazakale kwambiri, ngati sizili pano. Mdulidwe ukhoza kukhala wotsalira pa izi. Wina akhoza kukhala wamkulu akuyang'ana mwachikondi khanda ndipo nkunena kuti "Ndiabwino kwambiri nditha kuwadya." Lingaliro loti ana amakhala nyama lidayambira kalekale ku nthawi yomwe nyama zolusa zazikulu nthawi zambiri zimawopseza anthu. Kuopa nyama zikuluzikulu zitha kupitilira zaka masauzande angapo zitakhala zofunikira chifukwa zimaphunzitsidwa kwa ana adakali aang'ono kwambiri. Zitha kuzimiririka m'maganizo a akulu ngati zitasowa munkhani za ana. Kufotokozera wolamulira mwankhanza ngati chilombo chamakatuni ojambula mwina kumangowoneka opusa m'malo mochititsa mantha.
Pali njira yodziwika bwino mu maphunziro omwe tsopano akuphwanya mizere pakati pa mitundu ya nkhanza, kuti atenge kuti chifukwa chakuti nkhanza za ana kapena kuchepa kwachinyengo zikuchepetsedwa (ngati ziri), momwemonso nkhondo. Icho Funsani yanyalanyaza ndi kupotozedwa. Koma Spector ndi akatswiri omwe amauza, ndi ena ambiri, amakhulupirira kuti njira imodzi yochitira zachiwawa mitundu yonse, kuphatikizapo nkhondo, ndizovuta kulera ana mwachikondi komanso mosasamala. Ana otero samafuna kukhala ndi malingaliro a wothandizira nkhondo.
Kodi timakonda ana athu? Inde timachita. Koma n'chifukwa chiyani mayiko osauka amapereka maphunziro osaphunzitsa ku koleji, makolo amasiya nthawi, nthawi ya tchuthi, pantchito yopuma pantchito, chithandizo chamankhwala, ndi zina zotero, pamene ife tikungogonjetsa nkhondo nkhondo itatha nkhondo itatha? Uko kunali, mu nkhondo yomaliza yozizira, nyimbo yolembedwa ndi Sting Anthu a ku Russia yomwe inati padzakhala mtendere "ngati anthu aku Russia azikondanso ana awo." Sizinanene kuti azungu amakonda ana ake, koma zikuwoneka kuti panali kukayikira pang'ono za anthu aku Russia.
Ndinawona kuti ndikuwona kanema Sabata ino ya achinyamata aku Russia akuvina ndikuimba ku Moscow, mu Chingerezi, m'njira yomwe ndikuganiza kuti aku America angakonde. Ndikudabwa ngati gawo lina la yankho siloti ife tizikonda ana achi Russia, ndipo anthu aku Russia azikonda ana aku America, ndipo tonse tonse - tonse pamodzi - kuyamba kukonda mwadongosolo ndikukonda ana onse momwe timakondera zathu zomwe.
Nayi malo amodzi oyambira omwe titha kuyamba. Ndi mayiko atatu okha omwe akana kuvomereza Pangano la Ufulu wa Mwana. Ndi Sudan, Somalia, ndi United States of America, ndipo awiri mwa atatuwo akupita patsogolo ndi kuvomerezedwa.
Amwenye Achimwenye, WTF?
