ʻAe, ʻike wau aloha ʻoe i kāu poʻe keiki, e like me kaʻu e aloha nei i kaʻu. ʻAʻole kānalua kēlā. Akā aloha ʻoe i kaʻu a ʻo wau kāu? Ma muli o ka manaʻo he pilikia kekahi. Ua ala paha ʻo Ferguson i kekahi mau poʻe i kekahi o nā ala e hoʻokae ʻē ai kā mākou kaiāulu i ko ʻAmelika ʻApelika - inā he "discriminates" kahi huaʻōlelo e hiki ke hoʻopuni i ka pepehi kanaka. Akā ke ʻae mākou i ka pepehi kanaka o ka poʻe ʻōpio ʻeleʻele, hiki paha i kēlā mau poʻe ke kū i ʻelua mau kūʻē iā lākou, he ʻeleʻele a ʻeleu hoʻi lāua?
ʻO kā Barry Spector puke ʻO ka huhū ma nā Gates o ke kūlanakauhale ʻo ia kekahi o nā hōʻiliʻili momona o ka ʻike a me nā mea hoʻonāukiuki aʻu e ʻike ai. He puke ia e ʻeli nei i nā kaʻao moʻomeheu a me nā loina ʻōiwi no nā ala i waho o kahi moʻomeheu o ka consumerism, ka noho kaʻawale ʻana, ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana i ka moekolohe, ka makaʻu i ka make, ka inaina a me ka hoʻolālā ʻana, a me ka mahalo ʻole i ka ʻōpio a me ka ʻelemakule. ʻO kekahi o nā ʻano pīhoihoi o kēia puke ka ʻike ʻana i ke ola o kēia manawa ka hoʻomau ʻana o nā hana a mākou e manaʻo nei he barbaric, me ka mōhai ʻana i nā keiki.
Ua hoʻokumu ʻia ke kaua makeʻe ʻo Gulf i nā moʻolelo heka o Iraqis e wehe ana i nā pēpē mai incubators. Hoʻouna ʻia nā keiki e mālama i nā keʻena e pepehi a make a make i mea e pau ai ka hana a me ka make. Akā ʻaʻole ʻo ke kaua ka mea wale nō ke nānā aku i ka Spector.
"ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia e komo i ka mōhai keiki maoli," kākau ʻo ia - me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i keu keu, manaʻo wau, hihia e like me ke kanaka nāna i hoʻolei kāna kaikamahine liʻiliʻi mai ke alahaka i ka Pōʻahā ma Florida - "hana mākou pēlā ma o ka hana hoʻomāinoino, pākiko, mālama ʻole, hana hoʻomāinoino a me nā kōkua ʻole institusionaled. ʻO nā kaikamahine he ʻumikūmākahi mau makahiki a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi i ke kanakolu pākēneka o nā mea i loaʻa i ka pōpō, a ʻike nā mea hōʻeha kolohe ʻōpio i kā lākou poʻe hana hewa he kanaiwakumamākolu pākēneka o ka manawa. Noho ka hune o ka hapahā o nā keiki ʻAmelika; ma kahi o miliona o lākou he poʻe home ʻole. "
ʻO kahi poʻomanaʻo nui o kā Spector puke ʻo ka nele o kahi kuʻina hoʻomaka kūpono no nā kāne ʻōpio i kā mākou moʻomeheu. Kāhea ʻo ia iā mākou he mau mākua ka uninitiated. "Pehea," nīnau ʻo ia, hiki iā mākou ke "hoʻololi i kēlā mau hormonone huhū mai ka anti-social expression i mea maikaʻi? ʻAʻole hiki ke haʻi ikaika ʻia: ʻo nā kāne uninitiated ka mea e kaumaha ai ka honua āpau. Puhi paha lākou me ka hana a i ʻole hoʻopau paha lākou i nā mea āpau. Kēia ke ola honua ua hoʻopiʻi ka hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana i ka wahine. ʻOiai ke hoʻopaʻa pono nei ka hoʻohanohano patriarchal conditioning i ka hoʻomau i nā mea maoli kipaku aku i nā kāne ʻōpio i ka hana ʻino. Hāʻawi nā kaʻina hana i ka hoʻohālikelike a me ka hōʻailona i mea e pono ʻole ai nā keikikāne e hana i kā lākou ʻōlelo i loko.
Akā ma hope i loko o ka puke, manaʻo ʻo Spector ua hoʻomaopopo maoli mākou i kēia kūlana a hoʻonui i ka manaʻo. "Ke koho balota ʻia, manaʻo ka poʻe mākua ke kuleana o nā ʻōpio no ke kanahākumamākolu pākēneka o ka hana kolohe. Akā naʻe, hōʻike ʻo Sociologist Mike Males i ka hana ʻana o ka poʻe ʻōpio ma ka ʻumikūmākolu pākēneka wale nō o kēia mau hewa. Akā aneane ka hapalua o nā mokuʻāina e hoʻopiʻi i nā keiki i ka ʻumi a keu hoʻi me he mea lā he poʻe mākua lākou, a ʻoi aku ma kahi o kanalima pākēneka o nā poʻe mākua e ʻae i ka pepehi kanaka ʻōpio. "
I kekahi manawa mākou hoʻomaikaʻi mau keiki ma hope o ka luku ʻana iā lākou, akā pehea ka nui o lākou e pōmaikaʻi ai i kēlā?
I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo nā boomers pēpē no ka nui o nā lāʻau lapaʻau a me ka hewa, a he keʻokeʻo ka hapa nui. Akā ʻo ka hoʻopaʻi, e like me nā lāhui lāhui, e hoʻokō kaulike ʻia. "Loaʻa i nā ʻōpio ʻAmelika ka hoʻopaʻi ma ka hale paʻahao he kanaono pakeneka ka lōʻihi ma mua o ka poʻe mākua no nā hewa like. Ke hōʻeha ʻia nā mākua i nā kala kolohe, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o nā ʻōlelo hoʻopaʻi ma mua o ka wā he keiki nā mea i hōʻino ʻia. a ʻo nā mākua e hoʻomāinoino i kā lākou keiki e loaʻa nā ʻōlelo ʻoi aku ka pōkole ma mua o nā malihini. ”
ʻAʻole wale mākou i ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ma luna o nā keiki ma mua o nā mākua, e like me ka poʻe ʻeleʻele ma mua o ka poʻe keʻokeʻo, akā ke nānā pono mākou i nā lawehala e kūʻē i nā keiki, hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻo Spector, hoʻopiʻi mākou i nā kāhuna a i ʻole nā kāne a i ʻole nā kāne male, i ka lilo o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka “hana ʻole, nā kula nui , ka hoʻohaunaele ʻohana a i ʻole ka hana hoʻomāinoino hoʻokumu ʻia. ʻAno hiki ʻole i nā kāne ke hana i ka ʻike mua; komo lākou i hoʻokahi wale nō o ʻumikumākahi kumu kumu. ”
No ke aha mākou e ʻae ai i kahi ʻōnaehana e hoʻomau i kēlā mau hōʻino keiki? ʻAʻole anei mākou e ʻike, hoʻolalelale, alakaʻi hewa, ʻike maka pōkole, a me ka pīhoihoi? Hōʻike ʻo Spector ke lawe nei mākou i kahi moʻaukala lōʻihi. "Aia kekahi mau hōʻike e pili ana i ka luku maoli ʻia o nā keiki ʻelua (ʻo ka liʻiliʻi ma mua o ke kenekulia ʻumikūmāiwa) a me nā mea kūpono, ʻo nā kaikamahine hoʻi, ma ʻEulopa. ʻO ka hopena, aia kahi nui kaulike ʻole o nā kāne ma luna o nā wahine i loko o ka Middle Ages. ʻO ka hoʻomāinoino kino a me ka moekolohe ka mea maʻamau ʻo ka hapanui o nā keiki i hānau ma mua o ke kenekulia ʻumikūmāwalu i kapa ʻia i kēia lā 'keiki i hahau ʻia.' Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole i ala aʻe ka maʻi lapaʻau i waena o nā kauka a hiki i ka 1962, i ka manawa o ka hoʻohana mau ʻana o nā x-ray i hōʻike ʻia ai nā palahalaha he nui i nā lālā o nā keiki liʻiliʻi ʻōpio e ʻōhumu waha. "
Ke kākau nei ʻo Spector no kekahi o nā lynchings 5,000 ma United States ma waena o 1880 a me 1930, ma ka liʻiliʻi he 40 ka nui o ka hoʻomana kanaka, pinepine a hoʻomaʻamaʻa pinepine ʻia, pinepine me nā alakaʻi e mālama ana, maʻamau ma ka Lāpule, ua koho ka pūnaewele ma mua a hōʻike ʻia i nā nūpepa.
Ua ʻike ka Helene a me ka Hebera i ka mōhai keiki ma ke ʻano he mahele o ka wā mamao loa, inā ʻaʻole kēia manawa. He koena paha kēia o ke ʻoki poepoe. ʻO kekahi paha he mākua ke nānā aloha ʻana i kahi pēpē a ʻōlelo aʻe no lākou he "Nani wau hiki ke ʻai iā lākou." ʻO ka manaʻo o nā keiki me he mea pio lā lā a hiki i ke au i ka wā e hoʻoweliweli pinepine ana nā mea ʻino nui i nā kānaka. Hiki i ka makaʻu o nā mea hōkai nui ke hoʻomau i mau makahiki he mau makahiki ma hope o ka pili pololei ʻana no ka mea ua aʻo ʻia i nā keiki i ka wā ʻōpio. E nalo paha mai ka manaʻo o nā mākua inā nalowale ia mai nā moʻolelo o nā keiki. Ke hōʻike nei i kahi dictator haole ma ke ʻano he holoholona hihiu i nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi hoʻoponopono a laila e nānā naʻaupō paha ma mua o ka makaʻu.
Aia kekahi ala kaulana ma ka pīkoi i kēia manawa ke lohi nei i nā laina ma waena o nā ʻano hana kīnā, i mea e hoʻopiʻi ai no ka hoʻemi ʻana a hōʻemi paha ke keiki a (inā paha), pēlā nō ke kaua. I kēlā koi ana ua nui ka hoʻopunipuni a hele hewa. Akā ʻo Spector a me nā loea e hōʻike ʻo ia, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe he nui nō hoʻi ka manaʻo e hana i nā ʻano o nā hana ʻino a pau, ʻo ke kaua paha, ʻoi aku ka haʻahaʻa o ka hana ʻana i nā keiki aloha a me ka mau mea ʻole. ʻAʻole makemake ʻia kēlā mau keiki e hoʻomohala i nā mana noʻonoʻo o ka mea kākoʻo i ke kaua.
Aloha kā mākou keiki? ʻO ka hana ʻē a mākou. No ke aha e hōʻoia ʻole ai nā ʻāina waiwai ʻē aʻe i ka hoʻonaʻauao ma o ke kula, ʻo ka wā waiho aku, ka wā hoʻomaha, ka hoʻihoʻi, ka mālama ola, a laila, inā mākou e hōʻoia i ke kaua wale nō ma hope o ke kaua? Aia ma, i ke kaua maloʻo hope, ke mele a Sting i kapa ʻia Nā Lūkini i ʻōlelo ai e loaʻa ka maluhia "inā aloha pū nā Lūkia i kā lākou keiki." Ua hele me ka ʻole o ka ʻōlelo ʻana ua aloha ke Komohana i kāna mau keiki, akā aia paha kekahi kānalua iki e pili ana i ka Lūkini.
Hele wau i ʻike i a wikiō i kēia pule o ka poʻe ʻōpio Lūkini e hulahula nei a e mele ana ma Moscow, ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania, i ke ʻano aʻu e manaʻo nei e aloha ka poʻe ʻAmelika. Mahalo wau inā ʻaʻole no mākou kahi ʻāpana o ke aloha e aloha i nā keiki Lūkini, a me nā Lūkini e aloha i nā keiki ʻAmelika, a ʻo mākou āpau pū kekahi - i ke ʻano o ka hui pū ʻana - e hoʻomaka i ke aloha ʻōnaehana a me ka struktally aloha i nā keiki āpau i ke ala a mākou e aloha nui ai. kā mākou ponoʻī.
Eia kahi wahi kumu e hoʻomaka ai mākou. ʻEkolu mau lāhui wale nō i hōʻole e hoʻopaʻa i ka Convention ma nā Kuleana o ke Keiki. ʻO lākou ʻo Sudan, Somalia, a me ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa o ʻAmelika, a ʻelua o kēlā mau mea ʻekolu e neʻe nei i mua me ka ratification.
E koʻu mau kanaka ʻAmelika, WTF?
