Na David Soleil
A matsayinmu na masu tunani, masu kulawa, ba za mu taɓa son koyawa yaranmu cewa tashin hankali shine amsar kowace matsala ba. Muna son yaranmu su koyi zama da mutane, su raba, su zama masu kirki, su ce “ku gafarceni,” kuma suyi iya kokarinsu wurin nuna tausayi, “Yi haƙuri.
Ina tsammanin na dace da tashin hankalin da ya dabaibaye mu a al'adun Amurkawa. Koyaya, tafiya zuwa babban shagonmu na gida tare da yara na jiya ya kasance abin birgewa. Mun shiga cikin hanyoyin wasan yara. Anan ga jerin abubuwan wasa da adadi mai sauri, domin order
- Batman
- ikon Rangers
- star Wars
- Itearfin Elite - Sojojin zamani / kayan wasan soja
- Kwallon Kwara
Ƙarshe mai zuwa:
- Karin Ƙari Rangers
- Matashi mai rikida Ninja kunkuru
- Spider-Man
- Super Hero Smashers
- Marvel Comics Characters - Hulk, Avengers, Kyaftin Amurka, da dai sauransu.
- gidajen wuta
Ƙarshen ƙafa:
- Jerin Horror - Hoton Michael Meyers daga finafinan Halloween da Eric Draven daga Crow
- Game da karagai
- Magic
- HALO
Ƙarshen Aisle:
- Super Hero Adventures - waɗannan ƙananan juzu'i ne na Spider-Man, Batman, Wonder Woman da Hulk don ƙananan yara.
Lura tsarin a nan? Kowane abin wasa, ba tare da togiya ba, yana amfani da tashin hankali da makamai don haifar da ciwo da / ko mutuwa azaman maganin su. Bayan haka, tare da Jerin Horror, ya kamata mu yi wasa Serial Killer? Da gaske?
Wane saƙo wannan ya aika wa yaranmu? Tashin hankali jaruntaka. Tashin hankali shine mafita ga dukkan matsaloli. Tashin hankali babban iko ne.
Muna da mummunar fushi yayin da muka ga Ísis yana kashe mutum a cikin labarun yau da dare, duk da haka 'ya'yanmu suna wasa irin abubuwan da suka faru da ban sha'awa da abubuwan wasan da muke ba su don ranar haihuwar su, da fina-finai da muke ɗauka don ganin su, littattafai masu kyauta da muka saya don su, abubuwan da suke kallo akan talabijin, da wasannin bidiyo da muke saya a gare su.
Menene mafita ga wannan? Shin ina son jerin adadi na Selma a Target? Zai yiwu a Gandhi bobble-head? (Haka ne, wannan yana wanzuwa…)
Duk da cewa hakan zai yi kyau, amsar da nake nema ita ce baiwa iyaye damar su tsaya tsayin daka kan kimarku. Tsaya wajan samar da zaman lafiya. Aauki kai don ba da kai ga wasu, saboda jin kai da tausayawa. Yaranku suna neman ku don ayyana yadda za ku yi hulɗa da duniya. Yi magana da su game da ƙimomin ku, musamman a Target, kuma musamman a layin abin wasa. Ta yaya kuke magance matsaloli? Haɗa shi zuwa ga imaninku ko tsarin imanin ku. Me ake nufi da kai Krista? Musulmi? Mai Hadin Kai Na Duniya? Wani Dan Adam ne? Wanene manyan gwaraza a rayuwar ku kuma me yasa?
Ba zato ba tsammani, waɗancan “manyan jarumawan” filastik ɗin da makamin sun zama kamar wauta kuma haɗin gidan ku, darajojin ku da alaƙar ku sun ƙara zurfafa. Tsaya da ƙarfi. Sanya aminci a hannunsu. Bar tashin hankali a kan shiryayye.
David Soleil, wanda aka yi masa aiki PeaceVoice, shi ne tsohon shugaban kwamitin jagoranci na jagoranci na kungiyar jagorancin kasa da kasa, mai kafa da kuma ma'aikacin ma'aikatan K-12 Sudbury School of Atlanta.
